Thanks for your interest! For the locals, the primary areas of employment here are tourism, construction and all things water-related. I’ll speak more to this in a future blog – great inquiry.
Sitting through yet another grey, cloudy day "up north" but felt like I was one of the guys on the dive with you. Thanks for all the detail (head) while captuing the flavor (heart). You are an excellent writer! I look forward to your future postings.
Sitting through yet another grey, cloudy day "up north" but felt like I was one of the guys on the dive with you. Thanks for all the detail (head) while captuing the flavor (heart). You are an excellent writer! I look forward to your future postings.
Ah yes, I remember those grey, cloudy days all too well! I'm glad that you enjoyed a little escape with this posting. Thank you so very much for your comments and support!
Ah yes, I remember those grey, cloudy days all too well! I'm glad that you enjoyed a little escape with this posting. Thank you so very much for your comments and support!
Dawn, I know I have already said this, but I LOVE this!!! It gives me a glimpse into your wonderful and HAPPY life… which I love.. and it's so interesting! I know I will visit there someday….
Dawn, I know I have already said this, but I LOVE this!!! It gives me a glimpse into your wonderful and HAPPY life… which I love.. and it's so interesting! I know I will visit there someday….
Thanks so much! Always fun to have readers that know first-hand some of the experiences I'm describing. Hope it brings back some of that ALIVE feeling! 🙂
Thanks so much! Always fun to have readers that know first-hand some of the experiences I'm describing. Hope it brings back some of that ALIVE feeling! 🙂
Thanks for sharing the things you have learned to far. All very interesting.
Here is one thing I learned from your past blog entry: I love to eat mahi mahi (when I get somewhere where fresh is available)…and knew that is was the same as "dolphin". What I didn't know was that the fish I loved to eat…was indeed a fish and not the cute mammals I see at the zoo. I feel much better now.
I also feel better when I pee in the bush…but I already knew that (written by a guy).
Thanks for sharing the things you have learned to far. All very interesting.Here is one thing I learned from your past blog entry: I love to eat mahi mahi (when I get somewhere where fresh is available)…and knew that is was the same as "dolphin". What I didn't know was that the fish I loved to eat…was indeed a fish and not the cute mammals I see at the zoo. I feel much better now.I also feel better when I pee in the bush…but I already knew that (written by a guy).
Tagal, thanks so much for your comment. I laughed out loud at your last comment, but, more importantly, I am glad that you are no longer thinking you're eating dolphin-mammal! Thanks for reading and taking the time to write.
Tagal, thanks so much for your comment. I laughed out loud at your last comment, but, more importantly, I am glad that you are no longer thinking you're eating dolphin-mammal! Thanks for reading and taking the time to write.
Such a cool blog… Even if we cant all live on an island, we should take the time to enjoy life's many blessings! They are all around. Thanks for the reminder, Dawn — keep up the good work. Thoughtful and appreciative – two excellent qualities!
Such a cool blog… Even if we cant all live on an island, we should take the time to enjoy life's many blessings! They are all around. Thanks for the reminder, Dawn — keep up the good work. Thoughtful and appreciative – two excellent qualities!
Wonderful synopsis, Dawn, of how one's day to day routine changes when one chooses the better life. Our tiny island is not for everyone. It might be a little too slow for some, and lack amenities they consider "essential". As for me, I think it's as close to perfect as one can get in this life. Can't wait to come back Home.
Wonderful synopsis, Dawn, of how one's day to day routine changes when one chooses the better life. Our tiny island is not for everyone. It might be a little too slow for some, and lack amenities they consider "essential". As for me, I think it's as close to perfect as one can get in this life. Can't wait to come back Home.
Thanks, Joe! I'm glad you're enjoying the blog, and thanks for taking time to make a comment. As you clearly know, appreciating the good in our lives keeps bringing more of it our way!
Thanks, Joe! I'm glad you're enjoying the blog, and thanks for taking time to make a comment. As you clearly know, appreciating the good in our lives keeps bringing more of it our way!
Thanks so very much, tagal. (And no worries, I'm guessing you commented twice because you wondered what happened to the first one! I was offline this weekend so there was greater delay in the comments being published.)
Thanks so very much, tagal. (And no worries, I'm guessing you commented twice because you wondered what happened to the first one! I was offline this weekend so there was greater delay in the comments being published.)
Dawn it's great to finally have the back story on how you discovered the island. I too loved the memory of your Dad putting together the Chappy soundtrack. What a creative and sweet man! Thank you for sharing! P.S. I am guilty of belting out "La Isla Bonita" when it's dark and there's a fire and hubby has gone to bed…there may also be wine involved. 🙂
Dawn it's great to finally have the back story on how you discovered the island. I too loved the memory of your Dad putting together the Chappy soundtrack. What a creative and sweet man! Thank you for sharing!P.S. I am guilty of belting out "La Isla Bonita" when it's dark and there's a fire and hubby has gone to bed…there may also be wine involved. 🙂
LOL, I can't deny it! I was queen of the cream sauces and all things cheese. Still love all that (and indulge in Stateside restaurants), but part of Choosing The Better Life is eating healthier. Not to mention spending lots of time in bikinis these days does wonders for motivating me to keep the cream sauce pounds off! Thanks for your comment, Mom, I think. 😉
LOL, I can't deny it! I was queen of the cream sauces and all things cheese. Still love all that (and indulge in Stateside restaurants), but part of Choosing The Better Life is eating healthier. Not to mention spending lots of time in bikinis these days does wonders for motivating me to keep the cream sauce pounds off! Thanks for your comment, Mom, I think. 😉
Dawn, this is a wonderful post and I'm so glad to have read it this morning. One's inner voice is a gift. The key is to get better and better at tuning into it and trusting it as we go through life. Have a blessed day – Lois
Dawn, this is a wonderful post and I'm so glad to have read it this morning. One's inner voice is a gift. The key is to get better and better at tuning into it and trusting it as we go through life. Have a blessed day – Lois
It definetely is a leap of faith. I took a plunge with no job a few years ago, moving to Hawaii and it paid off. I hope you'll love your island adventure.
It definetely is a leap of faith. I took a plunge with no job a few years ago, moving to Hawaii and it paid off. I hope you'll love your island adventure.
The charter flights sounds like an awesome way to go with a pet. I wish I could do that flying to Europe….lol I so understand the errands to get all the things you can't get on island, I did that when I lived on Guam.
The charter flights sounds like an awesome way to go with a pet. I wish I could do that flying to Europe….lol I so understand the errands to get all the things you can't get on island, I did that when I lived on Guam.
Thanks, Lisa. Thankfully, Angel is small enough that she can travel in her carrier with me on commercial flights, too. I would have a hard time putting her down in cargo if she was bigger!
Thanks, Lisa. Thankfully, Angel is small enough that she can travel in her carrier with me on commercial flights, too. I would have a hard time putting her down in cargo if she was bigger!
We are spiritual beings as well as physical, mental and emotional. Your blog is about you and all the above define you, your past experiences and present circumstannces. Thanks for sharing.
We are spiritual beings as well as physical, mental and emotional. Your blog is about you and all the above define you, your past experiences and present circumstannces. Thanks for sharing.
GREAT post, neighbor! It was a little trashy, though. I like the "recycling" for glass beer bottles in place on Smidgeon…smash them into little bits and then use the bits as aggregate for concrete projects.
GREAT post, neighbor! It was a little trashy, though. I like the "recycling" for glass beer bottles in place on Smidgeon…smash them into little bits and then use the bits as aggregate for concrete projects.
Fabulous post (As Always)! Wow, that lady with the Kalik is brave! My hubby would probably do that, but it would take a lot of wine to get me to do that!
Fabulous post (As Always)! Wow, that lady with the Kalik is brave! My hubby would probably do that, but it would take a lot of wine to get me to do that!
I love reading your blog and looking at the photos of a simpler, more natural life in process. It makes me think. I've lived in Connecticut for all of my life but dream of doing something so completely different, like you have done. It's scary to think about but exhilarating as well.
My spouse and I love the water so much. We spent our summers growing up on lakes. She lived on Lake Ontario in New York state from the end of June to the beginning of school, and I lived on Candlewood Lake in Connecticut.
I think we both dream of living on the water, where we belong. I hope we can make that dream a reality in our lives.
I love reading your blog and looking at the photos of a simpler, more natural life in process. It makes me think. I've lived in Connecticut for all of my life but dream of doing something so completely different, like you have done. It's scary to think about but exhilarating as well.My spouse and I love the water so much. We spent our summers growing up on lakes. She lived on Lake Ontario in New York state from the end of June to the beginning of school, and I lived on Candlewood Lake in Connecticut.I think we both dream of living on the water, where we belong. I hope we can make that dream a reality in our lives.All the best,Lois
Lois, thanks for such a thoughtful comment. Yeah, there's something about the water – and this water in particular, for me – that has always given me such a sense of peace. Keep following your dream – whatever that may be for you!
Lois, thanks for such a thoughtful comment. Yeah, there's something about the water – and this water in particular, for me – that has always given me such a sense of peace. Keep following your dream – whatever that may be for you!
Nudgings are good. Listening to those nudgings are even better. A faith that deepens and a love that is passionate are wonderful things. Here's to a journey that keeps getting better and better – Lois
P.S. I really like the love story part of this post – and the photo that goes with it 🙂
Nudgings are good. Listening to those nudgings are even better. A faith that deepens and a love that is passionate are wonderful things. Here's to a journey that keeps getting better and better – LoisP.S. I really like the love story part of this post – and the photo that goes with it 🙂
Thanks, Lois. LOL, yeah the "love story" is something people like (me too!), but also what I feel the need to protect, especially with Mr. Private. As for the picture, it's my favorite! Glad you like it, too. As always, thanks for following along.
Thanks, Lois. LOL, yeah the "love story" is something people like (me too!), but also what I feel the need to protect, especially with Mr. Private. As for the picture, it's my favorite! Glad you like it, too. As always, thanks for following along.
Beautiful. The story, you, your love for each other…just beautiful. Made me get all girly and teary at how Romantic your story is. Yes, I know there was stuff before that, but…*Sigh. Love you guys.
Beautiful. The story, you, your love for each other…just beautiful. Made me get all girly and teary at how Romantic your story is. Yes, I know there was stuff before that, but…*Sigh. Love you guys.
Thanks for continuing to remind us that the we can "choose the better life" right where each of us are. I am turning off my computer, going for a walk, picking up that book I have been trying to finish, going to Easter services at church on Sunday…then we'll see what's on the computer on Monday!Have a great weekend and we will "see you" then.
Wonderful, Tagal! I hope you had as delightful a weekend as that sounds. In the Bahamas, Easter Monday is a holiday, too, so I'm just now beginning the computer wade-through to catch up. 😉
OK. I get the boat maneuvers, rock knifing, even the pot boiling – 30 minutes – all possible. But do they really just pop out with a knock on the cutting board? I have a feeling that may be the hard part! And they're HOT too? What a fun adventure. Thanks for including us!
Well, I was fixing the salad and making fish sandwiches, but yes! There was a fork involved to help pry out after the initial knocks. And my hands can't take that heat – I suspect we mortals would rinse them under cold water first. So glad you enjoyed the adventure! Thanks for your comment.
WOW! You definitely have REGATTA FEVER! It seems to be infectious too, because I could feel my heart speed up while scrolling through these photos. Seems like the only cure is salt water, yelling men, and floating orange buoys…I recommend you start treatment ASAP. 🙂
Thanks, Sarah! YES, happy doggy-mama's day to you, too! For all the women who do not have children of their own – whether by choice or circumstance – you still deserve to be celebrated for your kind, wise, generous, nurturing souls. You also give so much to the children, family members, friends, DOGS and pets that you care for so well. Happy Day to you all, too!
What a great post – I'm so happy to have found your blog! :)I'm with you on the guacamole! I definitely could eat that all day. I could stare at the ocean all day. It's so peaceful and energizing at the same time. I live just over an hour away and never go – so maybe it's time to take a trip. 🙂
Oh Neighbor, you're making my belly growl thinking about that goat! MMMMMmm…have some for me! I agree on most of it, but I have trouble receiving compliments…they make me uncomfortable. I appreciate the sentiment behind them though. Great post, as always!
Jodi, I'm so happy we found each other's stuff! 🙂 Glad you enjoyed the blog post. Hope you are able to make time for some guacamole and/or ocean visits this weekend! Sorry for the delay in my response – had a last minute trip Stateside to take care of a few things. Happily back on the island now. Have a Soul Speak kind of day and thanks for your comment!
Hi Sarah! Thanks for your comment. Since the upcoming wedding is on the island, you will definitely get to enjoy some goat souse! As for you not liking to receive compliments – I've noticed. 😉 But you're too wonderful not to pass them on, so you'll just have to get used to it! 🙂 Thanks again for your support!
Jo Anne left this same poem and a portrait of our house too! It is timeless and captures the message living in the souls of us "island folk". Great post Neighbor!
Dearest Anonymous, I haven't forgotten about you! One of the downsides about my big move is that I still have stuff in storage – including all my old photo albums! I would love to be able to include some old pictures, contrasted with new pictures, in answering your question about the changes I've witnessed in my couple decades knowing this island. One of these days, I'll tackle a storage visit. Meanwhile, thank you for your patience!
Dearest Anonymous, I haven't forgotten about you! One of the downsides about my big move is that I still have stuff in storage – including all my old photo albums! I would love to be able to include some old pictures, contrasted with new pictures, in answering your question about the changes I've witnessed in my couple decades knowing this island. One of these days, I'll tackle a storage visit. Meanwhile, thank you for your patience!
Bravo! I just love your new story – it feels so happy and empowering and alive! I'm with you that while we can't always control our external circumstances, we can control our reaction to them. I don't think you're Pollyanna – I think you recognize how powerful our thoughts are, and you're taking responsibility for your role in your own life. That's a good thing! Thank you for sharing both this great post and my post. So glad we've connected! 🙂
Thank you so very much, Jodi! I've been delighted to connect with you as well through the power of words and like-minded hearts. Cheers to Soul Speak and your own Better Life!
Hi Dawn. This is really a great post – and you are a wonderful writer. You pulled me in with every sentence. I know just what you're talking about when you write about the dark days. I went through a long period of them a while ago – and the only way out was changing the mind set and doing the spiritual work. Thank you for sharing such a big part of yourself.
Lois, thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your comment. You are another of the like-minded bloggers that I'm so pleased to be getting to know through this forum!
Dawn, do you miss the practice of law at all? I know that at least for awhile I would be just fine being separated from it, but having spent so much of my life in and around the law, I think it would be tough to let go, both emotionally as well as intellectually. I know that there are so many advantages to your situation, but have you felt the need to replace the intellectual stimulation you may have had as a lawyer with something else since you have embraced the island life? Will you still keep your law license up to date, or have you permanently walked away from the profession?Glad to see that you are doing so well,Chris Esson
Chris, great to hear from you and thanks for your comment/questions! The answer is NO! With nuances, of course, because we lawyers tend to parse words. 🙂 That's all part of the "Big Life Change" part 2 to this question that I'll answer later this week. I'll make sure to incorporate answers to your specific questions. Thank you!
I am so very sure your insights, empathy and words of comfort will be a great help. But mostly your love will…that is one of the reasons God bestows us with dear friends. Blessings of peace and comfort.
Love the photos, especially of the light blue sea. Love seeing you in the water and all the fish. I've always loved snorkeling, have done it many times in the Caribbean. And I've also had conch many times while there as well. This post transports me to a different and beautiful way of life…and completely relaxes me. Thanks so much, Lois
Thanks so much! "Island Busy" has kicked in again and vacation already feels like a world away. Definitely not complaining – love being home! Glad you enjoyed the post and pics, and thanks for commenting – and supporting my sappiness. 🙂
This is a beautiful review! I'm so glad you have connected. This book is so wonderful and sweet and poignant. I definitely recommend that everyone reads it. 🙂
Too cool! I love how colorful the land crabs are. They have such beautiful patterns too. How exciting that you got to go "crabbin"…guess it's official: you're really an island girl.
Thanks for your comment, Sarah. As for "island girl" – hah! Perhaps I've passed the rookie level, but I still have a ways to go to hit the advanced level. Working on it! 🙂
I clicked through to the Dean's Blue Hole link on Wikipedia, then watched the video there of a guy diving to the bottom with no tank or gear. I think I may have nightmares about this… Yikes!!!
Hello! Enjoying catching up on your blog this morning. I get a rare moment of silence and solitude these days so while up before the rest of the house this morning it seemed only fitting to read your blog and find this review! Hope you are well.
LOL, it does kinda look like the stuff of nightmares. But what a supercool video (Underwater base jump). Amazing that the diver and the videographer can hold their breath so long. Anyway, I had not intention of attempting to dive that hole while I was there! Thanks so much for your comment, Becz1. 😉
One of the things that makes me happy is reading your blog posts! It is the little things that really are important, taking a break and taking a breath. The french toast sounds extremely yummy and Angel is adorable. Reminds me of my little shih tzu when we are cooking. Have an awesome day Dawn.
And that, in turn, makes ME happy, Mara! I'm so glad to bring even the slightest of smiles to you and all of the Better Life readers. Hugs to your dog, and thanks so much for sharing.
The best stories are built on universal lessons — "little" things made big, or "big things made little. This is a great example of how a small thing can be very meaningful because it provides a connection with others — not to mention a magnificent breakfast!
Love the post, Neighbor! lol…btw, the bread maker has gone on to the great department store in the sky. I actually managed to kill it. I found happiness in getting back HOME to the island today. I cleaned and whipped up some wonderful, garlicky bean dip, and generally just nested. Happy Independence Day, fellow "ex-pat".
Remember my friend, being "un-busy" is as much a deliberate, conscious and strategic choice as being busy. You're experiencing guilt, is all, left over from your former career, like some kind residual effect from a past drug habit! Or, perhaps you were raised Catholic…another kind of "drug habit" altogether, but the end result is the same.There are several good stories about choosing to be un-busy in "Chocolate Cows and Purple Cheese". From "This is What God Meant When He First Said 'Blue'":"In a world where progress is often measured by the ever-increasing complexity of the system polluting our minds, sapping our bodies and corrupting our spirits, we need the simplicity of spending real time, doing simple things, together."Dawn, you now have that gift. Take advantage of it openly, gladly and aggressively.Best wishes.
Thank you for your comment, Tom. Definitely, being unbusy is a choice. And you're right that I let the "shoulds" and guilt over not being "productive" chip away at me some days. But for now, I'm nursing a cup of coffee before I don exercise clothes and continue my unbusy path toward the weekend! I so enjoyed your book "Chocolate Cows and Purple Cheese" when I first read it. I'd love to go back and check out the stories through these new-phase-in-life eyes. Alas, it is currently in storage! At least it made the purge of the move! 😉 Cheers to simplicity!
Theresa, thanks so much for taking the time to read and comment. Glad you love the pigs! Maybe our swimming pigs will have piglets again soon and I'll put up pics just for you!
This is a fabulous blog post!! And the pics are stunning. I love it.Are you serious there are only 100 residents on this island? Crazy. And do you mind my asking, who is the young white boy? You mentioned you don't have any kids of your own. My apologies but I haven't read every post on your blog so I may have missed who he is along the way.
Glad you liked the post! YES, there are fewer than 100 full-time residents on this tiny island, which is less than 5 square miles. We have a thriving international community of rental visitors, boaters and people with vacation homes, so it's actually fairly lively. I don't mind you asking about the white boys at all. There are two American boys who live here full-time – their American momma started coming here as a baby and is now married to a Bahamian. Also, although native Bahamians on this island are predominantly dark-skinned, there are also white Bahamians throughout the islands. Thanks for taking the time to post your comment and questions!
Okay I guess that makes total sense. There are tons of white Jamaicans as well. I just don't know much about other islands. Thanks for enlightening me! 🙂
Great post! What you, Beau, & the other camp organizers/volunteers are doing for the kids (& ultimately the island) is invaluable. This time in their lives is something they will look back on & smile as well as draw them together in an additional way other than just blood ties.Way to go, BLB!
Thanks so much, Sarah! The pleasure is truly mine. I think the adults have just as much fun as the kids, and I've loved getting to know them all. Glad you liked the post! Dawn, aka Dawn, aka BLB 🙂
Sorry to worry you, Tom! All is well here, and I'm glad to be blogging again. FYI to you and any other readers, if you are on Facebook, you can "like" my blog's page (https://www.facebook.com/IslandBlog). Even when I'm not posting to the blog, I try to drop little updates and tidbits there for you. Have a great week!
Wow, Neighbor! You beat us this time…despite our desire to, we never ventured up on the Ridge to brave its raging winds. Great pics. Yes, the whole time Hubby was up on the bloody roof I was mentally smacking him in the head. I couldn't believe he decided that roof repairs had to be done during 50mph winds! I am so thankful Isaac was so "easy on us" (compared to Irene). I continue to pray for the folks up North. Great post, as usual. Glad you are back on island! Now the Neighborhood is complete.
Great post, Neighbor! I feel like I'm living the parties all over again. It was so nice to celebrate with you and the rest of the community. Can I just say how much I LOVE those rare public expressions of affection between you and Beau! I know you guys stay low-key, but it warms both my and Hubby's heart when you guys are a little bit "lovey".
Thanks, Rita-Kay, so glad you liked it! And I appreciate you taking the time to comment. I look forward to seeing you back in the islands one of these days.
LOL. Thanks, Sarah! Thanks, too, for joining us in the celebrations – it wouldn't be the same without you and Hubby. I appreciate that you made a special effort to work in this last one around other plans. Island busy! 😉
Look like the birthdays were fantastic!!! You must pinch yourself every now and again, knowing this is your life now – you're in a place you love, surrounded by wonderful new friends and filled with love. What a wonderful celebration of LIFE. Awesome to see. Happy belated birthday and congratulations on choosing your better life!! 🙂
Oh Dear! What an adventure you have all had. It is difficult to deal with doggy emergencies living down on an island far from basic necessities. Glad you were able to catch a flight with her and get her looked at. VERY glad she is ok! Don't beat yourself up over this. Most people have these sorts of "oops episodes", and it's not like we intend to hurt our sweet little furry family. You're a wonderful Mommy, and I guarantee that is what Angel knows.
How precious Angel manages to ingest Aloe without going into spasms of "Blechism" I don't know. I've tried drinking Aloe tea for its medicinal value, and can't do it. It makes my very ears curl. Congrats on the new golf cart! Snazzy! Fancy Lady! I'll buy the drinks if you provide the ride tomorrow at around noon.
Thanks, Sarah! Unfortunately, I can't actually DRIVE the golf cart yet. Until the government licensing folks come to town, the vehicle lacks the required sticker and I don't want to "get booked" by the police under their new enforcement approach! LOL. Oh well, it's a good day to stay inside as the thunder rolls.
OMG. You poor thing. What a mess. Maybe you should re-name your blog "Choosing the More Adventurous Life???" So glad you're feeling better. I am in bed with tonsilitis. Yesterday could not speal or swallow. On steroids/antiobiotics/etc. Ugh. xxoo Jillian
I don't know, Jillian, tonsillitis sounds like an adventure itself! Ugh, indeed. You know, I think our bodies have a way of FORCING us to slow down sometimes. I'm just sayin' . . . 😉 Thanks for your comment!
Wow! When you told me you stepped on a sea urchin I didn't realize it entailed all of THAT! Had I known you were enduring a hangover of those proportions I certainly wouldn't have called as early as I did. 🙁 At least the whole adventure made a good story. Beau is such a sweetie. As much as you take care of him, it was good for him to take care of you in your hour of need. P.S. Don't do that again.
Oh NO! That's horrible! Sounded like paradise at first, and then… NOT. Glad you've healed and are feeling better – except the bruised ego, of course, which we all get now and again… *sigh*Hope your next couple of weeks (at least) are less eventful!P.S. Hope there aren't many typos here – have had a few glasses of red wine…
LOL, thanks, Christine! Yes, other than my dog fiasco, it's been very calm lately! No typos – I knew you were a "glass half full" kinda gal, but I guess Friday evenings are reason to fill the rest of the glass! 😉 Thanks for commenting.
Oh WOW, Dawn! Those are the most beautiful, spiritual sunrise pictures I think I've ever seen. Amazing, just amazing! Thank you so much for letting me know where my errant puppy dog had disappeared! Glad you three enjoyed a good visit and I just wish I'd followed her over. 🙂 Have a beautiful peaceful rest of your day!
Thanks so much, Sarah! Coming from your creative photographer self, I consider that high praise. Yes, I should've given you a sniff of my chocolate cake cuz it's long gone now! 🙂 Have a beautiful, peaceful day yourself!
Hi neighbor,Thank you so much for this mornings blog. So eloquent and descriptive,it made me feel as if I was actually there, but in doing so, it also made me feel soooooo homesick, it was hard to hold back the tears! What a simple, peaceful and wonderful life. You, and the lucky few that experience it on a daily basis are truly blessed!See you soon I hope. Barry
Barry, thank you so much for your sweet comment. You and Suzanne are part of my sunrise EVERY day! Since I don't usually haul out to the ocean beach, I simply gaze at the eastern sky from my front porch, necessarily seeing your house and thinking warm thoughts of you. Will be great to have you back to your island home. See you soon, and thanks for taking the time to post a comment.
Thank you so much for your comment! Although I (obviously!) love my island setting, I always hope to convey the point that our Better Life can be wherever we are. Glad you got that out of today's post. Enjoy your own Better Life, inner peace and have a wonderful weekend!
Thanks for the beautiful pictures!!! I enjoy the change of seasons and we started fall yesterday–leaves are starting to fall and the temperature is cooling off a little bit—it is also college football season and ECU played UNC yesterday on ESPN!!! In the midst of that, it was inspiring to see your beautiful sunrise pictures which make me wish for a last trip to the beach! Hope you and Beau and puppy are doing well after your summer adventures!XO, J
Thanks, JJ, for taking the time to comment! I also enjoy the change of seasons. It's just that they're much more subtle here! 🙂 Glad to hear all is well in your corner of the world. Have a good back-to-school and fall season!
Aunt Dawn, I want to run away live with you!!! School is stressful and Kansas is noticeably lacking in sunrise, rainbow, and ocean departments. Also, I'm pretty sure Jasper was meant to be an island dog.Love, Brenen and JBoo
Oh, sweet Brenen, the life of a college girl – writing at 2am! 🙂 Thanks for your entertaining comments. Never fear, fearless woman. I, too, was a landlocked Kansas collegiate – you just never know where you'll end up! Keep enjoying the journey, and the antics of Jasper along the way. Love and hugs to you!
What a pleasure it was to share our mountain life with you two, and a couple of mountain beers as well! Your photos truly capture the splendor of this place. We miss the Bahamas, and the turquoise waters are calling, as always. Continue to share your better life, and uplifting stories. Til we meet again, Happy Trails.
Dear friend, thanks for your comment and a lovely lunch together! I'm so glad you think the photos came close to doing justice to your majestic homeland. We hope to see you soon, in one time zone or another! Happy trails, indeed.
Wow, Dawn! Those pictures are absolutely stunning! I have to admit that I was not expecting the one of Beau on a horse, so I about fell out of my chair to yell at Hubby to look at it. Wonderful! So glad you guys got away for some "You Time"…man, did you ever get AWAY! Thank you for sharing your Better Life!
Wow! Those are enormous compared to the [what I now realize are dinky] ones I wrote about on my blog! And I was intrigued by the details you had about removing the inedible parts…I don't think anyone did any of that during my one whelks experience, they all just seemed to eat them whole. Great post – loved the pictures and the detailed descriptions of how to pick them! Thanks so much for sharing!-Patty (islandObsessions.com)
Thanks, Sarah, how funny! Yes, I love that pic of Beau on the horse. (And perhaps he's getting more comfortable about the blog but he pre-approved the posting, LOL!) It was a really wonderful trip. Glad you enjoyed it vicariously!
So glad you enjoyed the post, Patty! I enjoyed yours, too. Fun to see the similarities and differences in our island countries. Since then, I've had whelks beachside with locals, no butter, just eating them out of the shell. I suspect Beau was giving me a careful, gourmet experience for my first time. 🙂
What a touching homage to your Brave One. Brought tears to my eyes. As you know, I can totally relate. Happiest Birthday wishes to Slick and see you around the Cay for weekend celebrations. Just so I'm clear: The puffer fish did or did not count? LOL.
Thanks for your comment, Sarah. And cheers to your Brave One and your supportive love. As for the puffer fish, turns out they did allow it AND it won for biggest fish!! What a fun weekend.
Thanks so much, Christine! I’m enjoying the new site, too, and look forward to posting again in 2013. Meanwhile, Merry Christmas! Have a wonderful holiday with your family.
I so love your attitude and outlook on life! The concept of focusing on gratefulness in our lives is a beautiful one and it’s something that is easy for us to forget living our crazy lives! Thanks for the reminder!
You’ve been great about keeping tabs on my blog posts (thank you so much!) and I’m ashamed that I haven’t done such a great job of doing the same with yours. For a lot of us, 2013 is about changing our mindsets and really concentrating on what truly matters. For me, that means focusing more on my connections with people – especially those with whom I share so much in common. So, I’m going to aim to do better at checking on you and your adventures. 🙂
Your blog is looking great – they really are a labor of love, aren’t they? Your venture into video blogging is a fantastic one and I look forward to new installments.
Patty, thank you for such thoughtful comments. Great to see you here. 🙂 Best wishes rebuilding your blog – I look forward to seeing more from you. From one islander to another, happy new year!
Hello Dawn, I love you pictures, amazing job!! Im looking foward to coming back down this Febuary. See you soon! This time the guys will win the scavenger hunt!!
Shannon
(Butchs cousin)
A happy, happy new year to you, Dawn! It’s so wonderful to see and hear you! A beautiful video post. (Hmmmm… you’ve inspired me to consider doing some video posts as well).
I too am grateful for so much – for all the amazing aspects of my life, as well as the difficult lessons. It’s all led me to this moment.
Onward and upward in 2013! Looking forward to seeing where it takes you, as well! 🙂
Christine, delightful to hear from you! Thanks for your comment and support. We’ve come a long way, baby! 🙂 Onward and upward, indeed. I say go for it and step into the vlog world with me; it’s not as daunting as it may seem…
Hi, Is wonderful to discover your blog, as in less than six months I am relocating from my birth country of New Zealand to my husbands country of Morocco., He relocated here almost 3 years ago, a few months ago I decided it was time for us to live in Morocco, for a better life.:) Lisa
Bdidi
Lisa, delighted to have you join us! And GOOD for you for making decisions for your own Better Life. 🙂 I look forward to hearing how it goes. Please keep me posted!
Agreed, the flu is the pits! Even worse, to get sick in paradise:( I’m so glad you’re getting back on your feet and feeling better. I look forward to hearing from you.
Thanks, Tom and Ty! Great to hear from each of you, and I’m glad you and your families are well. Yup, I’m just taking it easy. Angel is scampering on the back deck while I nurse a cup o’tea. Thinking it may be nap time…
Wow, that sure does sound like some potent stuff! The yelling after each shot made me laugh, but I’m sure it was key to the recovery process. 🙂 I hope you’ve recovered a bit more by now as the flu is no fun at all! Get rest and feel better soon!
Thanks for commenting, Patty, and for your well wishes. Yes, I’m much better. And, yes, yelling after each bush medicine shot was key to my recovery. 🙂 Hope you’ve been healthy, and I’m sure you could come up with some bush medicine of your own if you need it! Have a great week.
Last time I felt the scare of seasickness I was with a group of travel writer in the Exumas. Basically strangers but with the power to tell stories to thousands. Not good. I fought through the need to lean over the side, instead just laying down and closing my eyes. Seemed to help at the time.
I still caught a little grief from the group being that I was they only Floridian in the group who went out on boats almost every weekend. So much for being the cool guy on the water.
Ryan, oh no! LOL. (And in the Exumas, too!) That is DEFINITELY a scare in front of travel writers! Glad you made it through unscathed. Thanks for sharing your story. 🙂
Dawn, we’ve all been there. I use to be the jokester, laughing at everyone as they became seasick on fishing trips. and lo and behold i was the one,leaning over the side of the boat on a fishing trip, right after we departed the harbour in nassau. great story!
Oh no, Fabian (Bahamasdread)! Sick in your own backyard, so to speak. Having to take a hit to your own jokester pride! I feel ya. Glad you liked my story, and thanks for commenting! Hearing similar stories from other Caribbean veterans is definitely helping me feel less ridiculous about it all. 😉
Dawn-
Isn’t being seasick the worst feeling? Just debilitating. It doesn’t happen that often to me but it is completely overpowering when it does. Sometimes I think my body likes to throw a little “oh, so you think you’re in charge” moment at me when I’m feeling like I’ve got it all together. As I write on my own blog recently about vulnerability I seem only to have turned up the volume and brought more vulnerability into my own life. Guess there’s more to look at there huh?
Oh you poor poor dear! Like everyone else said, we’ve all been there. Like you said, at least it was just you and Beau, and at least he’s sweet enough to come back in. I hope it is at least another 41 years until your next go-round with sea sickness.
Really Dawn, I love ya, and I admire your spirit and your writing, but this borders on “cruel and unusual punishment” for those of us here in the Midwest, where today it is, literally, below zero. As a former lawyer and Chicagoan, you should know better! 🙂
Ugh. My sincere apologies, especially since I confess that I sometimes – gulp – forget that it’s cold elsewhere! But, now, I am remembering all too well. Perhaps your simple joys today will come in the form of a crackling fire, snuggling up to a cozy loved one, the still in the chill, the peaceful quietude of shoveling snow (okay, maybe not that)… 😉 Thanks for commenting!
Love this, Dawn! The pics are gorgeous, and reflect so well your beautiful Better Life philosophy. I think my fave is the “Simplicity in a new day” – it somehow speaks to me of quiet, calm potential.
It’s so easy to complicate life when we think from the head. Thank you for reminding me to appreciate quiet moments and the beauty of nature (which, at the moment, is the fluffy snow outside my window), and for bringing me right back to my heart, where all is calm. So much to be grateful for. 🙂
Christine, you have such a beautiful way with words, most likely stemming from your beautiful spirit. 🙂 Enjoy the calm – and the fluffy snow! Thanks for commenting.
I love your word, and that you’re feeling super-inspired! So exciting. I’m confident your freelance writing business will keep you hopping, but equally confident that you’ll remain heart-centered – for that’s what brought you to choose a better life in the first place… your heart!
WRITE, baby, WRITE! Looking forward to reading!!! 🙂
So funny!!! Must’ve been quite the sight for Beau! Great job, though – your hair looks like a pro did it! (And I’m speaking as someone who’s gone to a salon for years to tame the grey that came early). Good for you for keeping your cool when you didn’t know what the results would be… I’m not sure I’d have been that calm.
Great post – you had me grinning from ear to ear! 🙂
Hah! Thanks, Christine. I’m glad you saw as much humor in it as I did. And I’m crossing my fingers that, like my paternal grandmother who I take after, the blonde will serve as a buffer to grays for decades to come. I guess we’ll see! Thanks for commenting.
I only wish I had blond hair! My mom has been highlighting her hair since the 80’s and of course HJ has some “dark blonde” hair. But this girl, along with wanting straight hair has always wanted freckles and blond hair. Hilarious story!
Dawn, thank you for such a interesting blog today. I loved seeing the commercial for the Bahamas. I wasn’t aware of it, since I’m not a football fan, and didn’t watch the Super Bowl. Watching it gave me goosebumps.
I also enjoyed the pictures of the mail boat. I had always heard so much about traveling on a mail boat, but had never been aboard .
Thanks for commenting, Suzanne! I confess I mostly watch the Super Bowl for its commercials and the social aspects of getting together for the big game. 🙂 Glad you enjoyed the blog. The mail boat trip was different from my transportation norms, which made it so interesting! I’ll probably still stick to a quickie flight most times in the future, but I’m glad to have had the experience. Enjoy your weekend!
This is so amazing. I always wonder how their mail system worked. That’s amazing and cool. Your pictures are awesome. I really enjoy reading about your adventures in the Bahamas. The commericals are correct it is better in the Bahamas. Enjoy your weekend.
Dawn, I’m so sorry we didn’t come down to the Regatta,as we are still in Nassau. Had no idea Beau was racing!! We’ll be coming your way soon. Can’t wait to visit. We are getting the bottom of the boat painted nxt wk and then I’m ready to cruise!!!!! Love your blog, keep up the good work!!!
Thanks for commenting, Rita-Kay! The Nassau Regatta was last fall, so you didn’t miss us recently. Glad you’ll get to cruise and head this way soon. I’m so glad you like the blog – thanks for following!
Hi dawn, loved your post about superbowl and the mailboat experience.I’ve lived in nassau for most of my life, but never travelled by mailboat. totally a different way to see the islands. just like you, i watched superbowl at a rowdy party in nassau and the entire party went silent as the ad played.
and the whole place erupted with cheers, when it was over. honestly that was one of the proudest moments of being a bahamian, to see bahamians proud to see their island showcased on a global stage.
i also wrote a post about it, check it out some time! http://sandyslipper.com/the-bahamas-wins-honors-for-best-superbowl-commercial-of-2013/
Thanks for commenting, Fabian. Give the mailboat a try sometime! If you prepare for the “experience” of it, knowing you’re not in for a luxury cruise, it’s a great way to see the out islands. I did see your Super Bowl post the other day and smiled at our similar experience. I was reading quickly and am behind on blog-commenting, so sorry I didn’t say anything to you there yet! Cheers to the Bahamas!
Thanks so much for your comment, JoAnne! Wonderful to hear from you, and good that you get at least a little vicarious view. In case you missed it before, this link is especially for you.
Ah, stunning! It’s times of reflection – often while enjoying the quiet beauty of something like a gorgeous, painted sky – that make us truly appreciate the journey that has led us to where we are now. I’m so glad you’ve chosen your better life and are enjoying all that it can bring! Happy two-year anni of the departure from a frenetic big-city pace that led, eventually, to a hectic but wonderful pace in the sun and sand. Hugs.
Thank you, Christine! I appreciate the sentiment. Plus, your comment is so eloquently put, that I shake my head in awe – no wonder you’re such a great Brighter Side blogger!
Two years later I still have to stop myself every morning from saying “Good morning, Dawn” when I walk by your office. It will always be your office and you are still missed every day!
Aww, thanks, Melissa! I think of you often, too. Your comment reminds me of walking into my family home for YEARS after our family dog had passed on to doggy heaven and immediately calling out to her like I had for so many years. Thankfully, I’m still around to answer you. 😉 Thanks for commenting!
Your “Foodie Friday” gets my vote, although it could be a Tasty Tuesday also, for example. Fresh seafood -growing up in So. FL.- IS my favorite food. Would love to learn more about preparing conch in multiple ways. Smackin’ my Lips READY!!!
Tasty Tuesday! Love it! There’s SO MUCH to do with conch, and it’s something I’ve never done myself, so this needs to be top of the priority list. (In fact, I just told Beau I was craving conch fritters from a local restaurant tonight. He scolded me for clogging my arteries, but oh well!)
Hi dawn i really enjoyed, reading your article on the steam fish, and I’m excited about your other cooking escapades. I loved the disclaimer at the beginning 🙂
Thanks, Fabian! As for the disclaimer, you nailed it in referring to my cooking ESCAPADES! People need to know what they’re getting into with my “foodie” posts. Hah! And, I suppose the lawyer in me is not dead. 😉 Have a great island weekend!
Yay!!! I’m so excited about your Foodie Fridays (or Tasty Tuesdays, or, for that matter, Mouth-watering Mondays)! Feel free to inspire us with island fare ANY day of the week! Can’t promise I won’t drool, though. That hogfish looked soooo good!
I’m excited, too! And it’s fun to get everyone’s feedback. Mouth-watering Mondays! Love it! My readers are so creative – y’all should think about writing your own blogs. Oh, wait. 🙂
Dawn, so glad we’ve connected and become friends. Thanks for the inspiration, humour, great ideas and support! You shine. 🙂 I look forward to us connecting more this year.
Oh NO, Dawn!!! How horrible! I hadn’t seen this post until now. Bet it’s heartening to know that sea veterans also aren’t immune.
From my last post, you know that I was VERY prone to motion sickness in childhood, and occasionally in adulthood as well. Well, back in university I was traveling in Belize and went snorkeling, and actually felt seasick!! (we were snorkeling along the top of the water). I didn’t know you could be seasick while snorkeling. *sigh* And because of it, our whole group had to turn back. Very embarrassing!
Oh no, Christine! You have a serious case of motion sickness!! I love how brave and gutsy (no pun intended) you are to keep trying fun new experiences despite that! Thanks for sharing. We can all relate. 🙂
I come from an island…close to the ocean I always find my peace. I find the experiences you write about very interesting…and I wonder how different my life would have been if I had stayed there. I’m looking forward to,those seafood recipes.
Wow, Tery. Profound thoughts! I’ve always felt peace most by the ocean too. A powerful connection! Our lives can take so many different paths. Interesting to wonder about. For me, I have to make the most of where I’m at to feel good. And if I can’t, then I change it! 😉 You are a pro at Better Life philosophy and do the same, I know. Personally, I’m thankful that your life path took you the direction it did so that I have the pleasure of interacting with you! xoxo
Dawn this post definitely resonated with me. I’ve been blogging for about 3 years and I know about all of the up’s and downs you mentioned. Some days it take a real inner motivation to get that post written and posted and the hours poured on finding a great pic, the readers will never know.
But a trick I definitely learned half-way through is to track the stats a lot less and keep blogging for the love and passion it gives to send out a good article.
2nd piece of good advice, i learned from another blogger. That post you may have spent days writing and felt like it should have won a Pulitzer prize, may very well not get even one response. Don’t take it personally.
Keep up the great work.
p.s I follow some of the bloggers who go to that blogher conference and everyone raves about it. I secretly learn a lot from them, women have a way different style of writing than men, and their words are colorful!!
Fabian, thanks so much for your comment. What fantastic advice! I agree about stats. I write what I like to, because I love to. I’ve largely ignored stats this whole first year, but think it’s an area I need to familiarize myself with now, just to keep the learning curve going. Writing for SEO/stat purposes, however, will never be part of our Better Life. Also great advice not to take “quiet” posts personally – I need to get better at that. 🙂 I’m delighted that you have also heard good things about BlogHer’13. I’ll share anything I learn with you – in colorful words, of course. 🙂 BTW, I’m behind on blog-reading but I see that you’ve posted another tantalizing post for us foodies and I look forward to reading it soon! Thanks for being a loyal follower and a wonderful support!
Secretly I’m kind of hoping, you try your hand at cooking the steam snapper and peas n rice dish. I’m horrible at peas n rice and need a good recipe. 🙂
hi~
i’m in the process of moving to Jamaica… it’s good to read bits from people who’ve done things like this, keeps me encouraged when the red tape and whatnot gets frustrating, or when i momentarily wonder if this is maybe crazy (fortunately those moments are pretty rare)… so, just wanted to thank you in general… that’s why i read your blog… have a lovely day
Tanya, thank you so very much for commenting. I don’t believe we’ve “talked” before, so I’m delighted to hear from you. I’m especially pleased to know what the draw of the blog is for you. A move to Jamaica sounds exciting! Not crazy at all. Bold and courageous, perhaps. Leaving our communities to jaunt off to an island may sound daunting and “crazy” to some who remain behind. But, as I’ve entered the world of travel bloggers, expat bloggers, etc., it’s AMAZING to see how very many people are out there doing it – successfully, happily. So hang in there! Yes, red tape, headaches and all the usual frustrations of life once you get there – but island living is pretty fabulous. 🙂
good morning Dawn! no, we haven’t really ‘talked’ and i admit i don’t comment much on fb either, but i’m Ann Cognito on your fb page… and yes, living here is a whole ‘nother perspective on what’s important… the tangles of red tape just make me realize how important this really is, and it keeps me thinking of the things i want to do here… i doff my (big stooshy sun)hat to you for doing it yourself and making it work, and for putting yourself here to be encouraging to others! maybe when i get settled, a blog would be a good idea so i can try to do the same… meanwhile, will just keep believing… have a lovely day 🙂
That was a great write up on how to tackle the lobster head and turn it into a real treat. In my house we’ve been eating the meat out of the lobster head, since I was a little kid. It wasn’t until I visited the US did I realize other people only ate the tails, even in home preparation cases. But oh, it’s so delicious. I can’t wait to see what you tackle for next Friday.
Thanks, Fabian! As a Bahamian, you know your stuff on this front, so I’m glad you liked the post. Hmmm, I’m hungry now and craving some tuna-n-grits. That’s bound to be a post one of these Foodie Fridays…
We save the legs from the really big ones and eat them just like you showed in your last pic with the steamed meat and butter. Yum! But I’m not too sure we can wrestle one of those huge heads into a pot in the galley of our boat. I applaud your efforts in honoring the whole, beautiful lobster! Thanks for sharing the process!
Thanks for commenting, Debi! Yes, it could be daunting in a small galley, but I’m confident in your sailorgirl skills. 🙂 Reading your comment made me hungry for legs in butter all over again!
Thanks, Christine! Very sweet of you (and Heather). I’m especially delighted that you commented because I was able to check out your website. Looks interesting and I’ll dig in deeper soon!
Wow! That was a HUGE lobster head! Impressive! I found your detailed description of the cooking and dismantling of it to be really interesting – it reminded me (sort of) of picking meat from blue crabs that are common up here in the Washington DC area during the summer. Good thing to not let this massive lobster head go to waste! Thanks for sharing!
Thanks cariborbust (Patty), so glad you liked the post! I haven’t had blue crabs but know people love them. I suppose a little less time-consuming since they’re smaller – but then you have to do more of them for a full belly! 🙂 Thanks for commenting.
OMG Dawn, I am literally drooling over here. Can hardly wait til July when we take our annual trip to Abaco. There’s nothing like lobster and crab straight from the Sea. Great post!
Thanks so much, Linda! I’m actually cooking with some of the leftover lobster head tonight. Likely to be an upcoming post. 😉 Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
Yum! Cheesy, creamy, Lobster-y :),….that gets my vote! Looking forward to some conch recipes also.
I recall a new found love for conch that was discovered on your very island some 20+ years ago!
Don’t think I’ve had it as good since and not very often. But I don’t think it would ever taste as good.
For me, A key ingredient to a great meal is the experience as well! On a side note, I’m fully caught up on your blog, throughly enjoying living vicariously thru you! <3 K.
Kari, delightful to see you here! Thanks for following the blog and for your comment. Conch recipes are definitely in our future! My problem is that I usually eat it so fast I forget to take pictures. 🙂 20+ years ago, time flies, fun and tasty then, fun and tasty now! Agreed that experience is part of the culinary fun! Have a great weekend.
Hi Dawn. It’s funny-I just hit your blog today for the first time. I actually looked at my hubby last night and said if I don’t leave the stress of my job I’m going to die of a heart attack or something even more horrible. “We need to go to an island somewhere” is what I seriously said. After he moved his eyebrows in a manner I have never witnessed from a human (I’m a nurse…) he said “you are crazy”. And here I am at your site. Things that make you go hmmmmmm…..
So, how would we support ourselves on an Island, we’re not spring chickens anymore?
Love it and You are really great and interesting-keep writing sweetie.
Wow, Jo, welcome! I don’t believe in “coincidences,” so keep exploring and see how you continue to feel! You just never know. 🙂 Yes, income/support is key. For me, it’s living on savings from my years as a lawyer, a generous Beau and family, and a transitional career as a freelance writer. The internet has opened up tons of opportunities for travelers, island dwellers and “location independent” workers. Since you already seem to be scouring the internet to feed this new dream, look for expat blogs and you’ll see tons of variety in how they support themselves. Twitter is a great resource, too. Also, the work rules of your adopted country will be important. It’s possible you could even get a permit to work as a nurse in your new environment! Or, maybe you’ll find that this current dream is just starting you down a path that will take an entirely different direction. (I thought I was going to move to Nashville and focus on songwriting!!) Regardless, cheers to you for paying attention to how you feel, being willing to make changes and Choosing your own Better Life! Best wishes and keep in touch.
Waaaaaah!!! 🙁 SO stressful. WOW – I was right with you through the whole blog post! That must have been horrible! And awful to have to wait to find out if she was okay. Thank goodness all was fine. And do not be hard on yourself – you were just trying to do the best you can to alleviate her pain. You’re a great mommy!
Thanks, Christine! When I’m not poisoning her, I’m spoiling her. Sigh. 🙂 I always said I’d be better disciplined with children than I am with my dog. 🙂 Thanks for your comment!
This is so interesting! I’ve never seen a boat launched but it reminds me of this gigantic wooden toy solider my neighbor has. On Thanksgiving, all of the men in the neighborhood help pull it upright with ropes and pulls much like the boat. He has the biggest Christmas light display in the area and the toy solider is his crowning decoration.
A giant wooden toy soldier! At least he doesn’t have to get it to float or move fast. 🙂 That sounds fascinating – next Thanksgiving blog post perhaps! 😉 Thanks for your comment!
This is getting exciting. I’ve never seen a boat launched and you had me hanging on to every word. I can’t wait to see how they get the 60 foot masts onto the boat and attached.Loving it!!
The info on the launching of the Tida Wave was very informative. Now I know how they get that big winning machine into the water. The boat looks very nice, ready to go down to the 60th George Town Regatta. I wish the captain and its crew all the best in these various races, I hope they comes out victorious. I look forward in watching the A-class races when I go to the regatta.
Yum! It’s always fun to see how different places do it, although – unlike other Bahamian dishes – the style for tuna and grits seems fairly universal. Thanks for your comment, Chris!
Fabian, I suspected you would be a fan. 🙂 I just got some yellow grits in George Town. They’re in a simple plastic bag with no instructions, so it looks like my next lesson will be cooked yellow grits! Thanks for commenting.
Good to hear from you, Ty. I had eaten both separately before also – it’s an entirely different experience to put them together! For this dish, no, no additional flavoring to the grits. Since each forkful includes tuna salad with the grits, that’s where the flavor comes from. Mmmm, hungry again…
Thank you! Keep in mind that I just culled the best from 400+ pics, not to mention having beautiful boats/water/sky to work with! 🙂 I’m glad you commented, Joe.
Been thinking about you. I was so sad to get the news! Glad you and Beau were able to make the best of it though, and that he was honoured at the awards ceremony. It must have been so exciting being on the chase boat and part of the action! Eeek! LOVE the pictures. It’s interesting – with the earlier shots I was surprised at the number of crew, then in later pictures, I totally understood… amazing the weight that’s required on a windy day!
Thanks, Christine! Glad you enjoyed the recap and photos. Yes, windy days require more people on deck to lean out on the pry – and that’s even with loads of lead in the keel! All very exciting. Glad to be back with you and our Better Lifers. 🙂
I’m a Bahamian! I travel on mail boats as a kid from Nassau to Long Island.. The experience is a beautiful thing.. I now live in Palm Beach County Fl. I wish one left here to the Bahamas..
Hi Kenneth, delighted to hear from you! Thanks so much for your comment. Sounds like it’s time for you to get back home and cruise the islands again. 🙂
Many thanks for your detailed and superbly illustrated article about a mailboat experience. I’ve started a blog about the history of mailboats in the Bahamas which I hope to turn into my next book. I took the liberty of posting a link to this story. More at http://www.mailboatsbahamas.blogspot.com. Thank you!
Hi Eric. Thanks for commenting here and for linking my post in your blog. What a delightful concept to detail the mailboat history and experience! I enjoyed browsing your blog. Keep in touch!
So happy to hear your “voice” again! My thoughts are with you and your family, and I’m so grateful to hear all is well! You’ve definitely focused your energy in the right places and your attitude is inspiring! Sounds like your mom and brother share the same wonderful perspective. 🙂 Sending all positive thoughts your way. xo
Thank you, Christine! I’m still not blogging as much as I’d like, but look forward to getting back into the swing before much longer. Meanwhile, happy American 4th of July! 🙂
Dawn, this is wonderful! I finally had a chance to read (some of) it and, I have to say – you’ve captured the essence of the island and all its “specialness” just the way I see it. It’s beautifully written and a joy to read. (You’re making me “homesick”).
I’m admiring your tomato plants! Gardening is good for the soul and fresh, homegrown tomatoes are the best!
Hope all is well with you guys and I will definitely finish reading and check on you often to see what’s going on!
~Chrissy
Thanks, Chrissy! It’s great to “see” you here. You have a wonderful green thumb, so fingers crossed that I can keep up! Or get lessons. 🙂 Thanks for following and commenting – much appreciated.
Hi! So glad to see your post! And a big “welcome back” to your island life! How wonderful to come home to beautiful sunsets and fiery sunrises, lovely plants (that you’re nurturing beautifully!) and the chance to catch your breath and enjoy an island dinner with Beau. And I love that you’re taking in the beauty of special everyday moments. That’s what it’s all about, right? 🙂
~ Christine
I miss those sunsets and the peace that the sea provides. Hopefully, we will get back there one of these days. Hi to Beau and the pups too. By the way, somebody has a birthday on the 28th, Happy Birthday Dawn, have a beautiful day. (:
Love you, Auntie and Uncle
Thank you, Auntie and Unc! I am having a wonderful birthday week already. My brother is here, and Beau took us all over this weekend. Lots of fun, lots of pics. I’m sure some of it will end up on the blog. 🙂 Thanks for your comment and well wishes. Love to you all.
Thanks, Interested Reader! Well, it was a little procrastination, but mostly “island busy.” Starting with Regatta in April, I have been leaping from one event or round of travel to the next, including time in the States for family and medical stuff. Importantly, in the midst of being “busy,” I made a point to keep doing the fun stuff, too, and to attempt to maintain life balance by staying off the computer in the evenings and weekends. As a result, my beloved blog suffered my absence. But, also as a result, I am returning with renewed zest. And, yes, I procrastinated some, too. 😉 Thanks so much for your comment and have a great weekend!
Ah, wonderful to read your post. What an incredible sunset – fire dancing in the sky. And you’re so right, Mother Nature IS a spectacular artist.
I’m glad you’re back, but also glad you took time for yourself when you felt pulled in other directions. That’s so important, and as you know, a key to living the Better Life. 🙂
Christine, thanks so much for your comment. I am enjoying “being back” – even more so when I get to communicate with loyal readers like yourself! Thanks so much. Enjoy your own Better Life! As you well know, sunrises and sunsets and beautiful skies occur in all corners of the world. 😉
Hi. What can I say? YUM!! This looks fantastic. Question for you – how do you think it would taste with sweet potatoes rather than regular potatoes and rice? Think it would work, or would the sweet taste strange with the sauce? I’m curious, as I’ve been thinking about sweet potatoes lately. Regardless, I’ll have to try this, even sans Eleuthra Sauce.
Thanks, Christine! Mmmm, I like sweet potatoes, too. I don’t know, but give it a try! Stick with a fish that would otherwise go well with sweet potatoes, and maybe omit the hot peppers? Lemme know!
Dawn, Im glad your back and your post was refreshing. It’s so good to hear a writer openly talk about her blog and the challenges that exist. I truly think i had forgotten why islanders like the islands so much;
because of it’s peaceful and laid back lifestyle. And how this tug of war exists between getting more tourists to encourage the economy and the fight to maintain the island way of life in spite of this. This post was timely and true to the essence of choosing the better life. Continue to enjoy the islands!!!!
Hey Dawn! My husband and I enjoyed seeing you again at SCYC a couple of weeks ago. We are the couple from Louisiana and w brought my parents along with us this last trip. We will definitely let you know when we head back to paradise! Until then, I will keep up with you and the better life through your blog! Jenni
Hi Jenni, thanks so much for checking out the blog and leaving a comment. It was lovely to see you and Doug again, and to meet your folks! Enjoy the onset of Fall in Louisiana, and I hope to see you back island-side soon.
Looks like an awesome trip. Your underwater photos were great as well. Gotta love the bahamas, and those huge lobsters. Keep posting, cant wait to read your next article.
Thanks, Fabian! Underwater photos are far easier in the crystal clear waters of the Bahamas. And, oh, the lobster, Thanks for your comment and enjoy another great Bahamian day!
Thanks, Lorena! Always good to hear from you, and I appreciate your comment. When you live in places of beauty like we do, a rainy day isn’t bad at all!
So NOW I finally know the bigger back story! Love it! What wonderful memories you’ve all shared there. And I love how your parents made the first experience so special. Creative and beautiful. 🙂
Stunning, just stunning. So glad you had a wonderful visit with your brother! I’m sure he won’t wait too long to visit this time, now that he’s had a recent taste of your beautiful island!!
I read your blog whenever you post, I enjoy every word of it. This one made me laugh out loud.
A little about me. Years ago, after a visit to St. Thomas, I actually sent resumes to law firms in St. Thomas, thinking it was just a dream and no one would respond. I actually got several job offers, site unseen. When faced with the very real possibility of living there, I had to consider the fact that I was a single mother to a 3 year old and didn’t really want to take her away from all her family. So, here I am, many years later, still stuck in a law firm in downtown Houston, living vicariously through your blog.
While I enjoyed this blog, I think I’ll have to pass on the Vienna Sausage treat, haven’t eaten one of those since my own childhood! Keep up the blogging!
Mia, I’m delighted to hear from you! Thank you so much for commenting. I enjoyed learning more about you, although I hate that you are “still stuck.” 🙂 And, of course, I always enjoy hearing from other lawyers. (“Once a lawyer…”) Sounds like you made some good-momma choices back in the day, but perhaps you’ll be able to make a new opportunity when your daughter flies the nest. Regardless of geographic location, I hope you are living your Better Life in small ways every day! Also, I very much appreciate your choice to skip trying the Vienna Sausages again. 🙂 So please enjoy a great downtown Houston restaurant meal for me!!
Great post, Dawn! Hubby and I take Vienna sausages out with us when we go fishing, diving, or beach combing . We like ours with a mustard and sharp cheddar on crackers. I’m going to have to try this hot sauce and sour prep now.
Thanks, Sarah! You know, I actually thought of you after I posted the blog because I remembered (belatedly) seeing a Vienna Sausage can by your boat gear one day, and I wished that I had commented on how others use them straight out of the can for on-the-go snacks. So, thank you very much for sharing with us all! I’m going to try them your way, too! Yum. 🙂
Morning Dawn (: Loved reading about your “winter weather”. Even here in TX we were freezing. Single digits but Uncle walked anyway. Broke all records here. I do believe ones blood thins when you live in a warmer climate.
Wishing you and Beau a blessed 2014!
Loved the pictures, brings back good memories
Thanks for your comment, Auntie. Congrats to Unc for keeping up the exercise, despite the weather. I haven’t been able to keep it up in my fabulous weather. 😉 Good to hear from you and Happy New Year!
Just the recipe I was looking for, I even have some Eluthura sauce but I call it Long Island sauce 🙂 (we are almost neighbors). I was looking for a healthy version of this recipe so thanks for posting.
Robin
Nice to see you back at the keyboard after your looooooonnngggg vacation! Hope you are well. I am a mess, but that’s a conversation for another outlet. Peace.
Kelly, thanks so much for commenting! Yes, Kitty has definitely stolen my heart. Now that I am officially a cat lover and talk more about cats, I’ve heard repeatedly that orange tabby cats (especially male) are known for being loving and affectionate like our kitty. Go figure!
I read your YouQueen article about your experience switching from lawyer and hardworker to island freelance writer and a more relaxing lifestyle about a year ago, and I have just come back to it because I am thinking about making almost similar changes in my life (I’m the esthetician/wax specialist who always wanted to be a writer) and am very unsure and afraid right now, yet completely inspired and encouraged. I had to find your blog after that to see how things are going for you and I am glad to see that things seem to be going great 🙂 God bless you Dawn!
Ashley! Thank you so much for your comment. I am sorry it took my so very long to respond. I’m afraid I’ve neglected my blog terribly. However, being appalled at myself may have the silver lining of kick-starting me to post again! All is well; just got busy with new projects. I also popped over to your blog to see how YOU are doing! I hope you continue to feel the inspiration and encouragement (more than the fear and uncertainty)! All the best to you, Ashley. Thanks so much for writing. Dawn
Hi Dawn,
I met you on a flight to the island in June of 2013. We sat next to each other, you were bringing a washing machine over :-). I just found your card and came to check out your site. I look forward to reading more about your life in the Bahamas. I look forward to making it back over there again one day.
Hi, Tiffany! Thank you so much for your comment and for checking out the blog. I am sorry it took my so very long to respond. I’m afraid I’ve neglected my blog terribly. However, being appalled at myself may have the silver lining of kick-starting me to post again! All is well; just got busy with new projects. Off to a Regatta. To be continued. 🙂 Hope all is well in your world! Thanks again for writing. Dawn
My folks built a house outside Hopetown back in the 80s. All of our neighbors were Bahamian and taught my mom this recipe. Spot on as far as I can tell. Makes me want a Matusalem and water…..
I LOVE Kitty, I am not surprised that he has found his way into your heart and home! Of course they’re sweet and cuddly – especially orange tabby cats (I miss my Cleo)…
I love your blog, Dawn, and am so happy that you’re sharing your experiences there with us. (It only makes me miss the Bahamas more!) Your stories are compelling and fun to read. And I didn’t know you offered all those writing services. How much of your time do you actually spend writing for others now?
Thanks for your comment, Julee. I’m so pleased you like the blog! I spend very little time writing now – not on this blog and not freelance either! Life has become quite “busy” with other things, but I still try to maintain that “balance” that is central to the theme of this blog and to reap the upsides of island living! For now, however, that means pushing writing to the back-burner. I’m confident there will be a day when it takes on a stronger focus again. Meanwhile, I’ve maintained the blog site, intending to get back to writing. And that’s why I signed on today at long last . . . to write! Thanks for your support.
Thanks for the comment! I’ve been right here, mostly. But Life got busy with other priorities and writing moved lower on the list. Been feeling the nudges to move it higher on the list, so … here I am! 😉
These photos really capture all the beauty of the Island and how wonderful to be in harmony with nature! I love the blog:)
Thank you so much for your comment! I’m glad you’re enjoying the blog.
Wow where do I sign up. Just wondering how people support themselves on such a small island.
Thanks for your interest! For the locals, the primary areas of employment here are tourism, construction and all things water-related. I’ll speak more to this in a future blog – great inquiry.
These photos really capture all the beauty of the Island and how wonderful to be in harmony with nature! I love the blog:)
Truly beautiful. You have captured some of the energy of life there. Thanks for letting us live vicariously (for now)!
Nicole, I am so glad you’re able to enjoy it from afar with me! Thanks for taking the time to comment.
This is wonderful. For years I have been hearing stories of this magical place and now you are actually going to bring them to life for us.
Bob, thanks so much for your comment! I’m glad you’re enjoying the blog and feeling the magic!
Technology is so great! I was waiting on your novel but this is even more exciting! Thank you so much for sharing with us.
LOL, thanks Lotty Lou! I’m having fun with this and am glad to have you join me in the excitement.
Sitting through yet another grey, cloudy day "up north" but felt like I was one of the guys on the dive with you. Thanks for all the detail (head) while captuing the flavor (heart). You are an excellent writer! I look forward to your future postings.
Sitting through yet another grey, cloudy day "up north" but felt like I was one of the guys on the dive with you. Thanks for all the detail (head) while captuing the flavor (heart). You are an excellent writer! I look forward to your future postings.
Ah yes, I remember those grey, cloudy days all too well! I'm glad that you enjoyed a little escape with this posting. Thank you so very much for your comments and support!
Ah yes, I remember those grey, cloudy days all too well! I'm glad that you enjoyed a little escape with this posting. Thank you so very much for your comments and support!
Thanks for the great story. The lobster made my mouth water! Eager to read more…stuck in cold PTown with no warmth in sight. Enjoy the sun 😉
Thanks for the great story. The lobster made my mouth water! Eager to read more…stuck in cold PTown with no warmth in sight. Enjoy the sun 😉
Julie, thanks so much for checking it out! Glad you enjoyed living vicariously a bit. Stay warm and "see" you soon!
Julie, thanks so much for checking it out! Glad you enjoyed living vicariously a bit. Stay warm and "see" you soon!
Dawn, I know I have already said this, but I LOVE this!!! It gives me a glimpse into your wonderful and HAPPY life… which I love.. and it's so interesting! I know I will visit there someday….
Dawn, I know I have already said this, but I LOVE this!!! It gives me a glimpse into your wonderful and HAPPY life… which I love.. and it's so interesting! I know I will visit there someday….
Thanks so much, Derra! I love that you love it. 🙂
Thanks so much, Derra! I love that you love it. 🙂
I love reading your blogs. I too have lived in the islands for about 3 months. I never felt so ALIVE!! Thanks.
I love reading your blogs. I too have lived in the islands for about 3 months. I never felt so ALIVE!! Thanks.
Thanks so much! Always fun to have readers that know first-hand some of the experiences I'm describing. Hope it brings back some of that ALIVE feeling! 🙂
Thanks so much! Always fun to have readers that know first-hand some of the experiences I'm describing. Hope it brings back some of that ALIVE feeling! 🙂
I don't like big critters in the sea either! However, I do enjoy seeing all your pictures and reading your blog. Keep it up!
I don't like big critters in the sea either! However, I do enjoy seeing all your pictures and reading your blog. Keep it up!
Thank you so much for your comment! I'm glad you're enjoying the blog. I'll keep an eye out for the critters for you! 😉
Thank you so much for your comment! I'm glad you're enjoying the blog. I'll keep an eye out for the critters for you! 😉
Thanks for sharing the things you have learned to far. All very interesting.
Here is one thing I learned from your past blog entry: I love to eat mahi mahi (when I get somewhere where fresh is available)…and knew that is was the same as "dolphin". What I didn't know was that the fish I loved to eat…was indeed a fish and not the cute mammals I see at the zoo. I feel much better now.
I also feel better when I pee in the bush…but I already knew that (written by a guy).
Thanks for sharing the things you have learned to far. All very interesting.Here is one thing I learned from your past blog entry: I love to eat mahi mahi (when I get somewhere where fresh is available)…and knew that is was the same as "dolphin". What I didn't know was that the fish I loved to eat…was indeed a fish and not the cute mammals I see at the zoo. I feel much better now.I also feel better when I pee in the bush…but I already knew that (written by a guy).
Tagal, thanks so much for your comment. I laughed out loud at your last comment, but, more importantly, I am glad that you are no longer thinking you're eating dolphin-mammal! Thanks for reading and taking the time to write.
Tagal, thanks so much for your comment. I laughed out loud at your last comment, but, more importantly, I am glad that you are no longer thinking you're eating dolphin-mammal! Thanks for reading and taking the time to write.
Such a cool blog… Even if we cant all live on an island, we should take the time to enjoy life's many blessings! They are all around. Thanks for the reminder, Dawn — keep up the good work. Thoughtful and appreciative – two excellent qualities!
Such a cool blog… Even if we cant all live on an island, we should take the time to enjoy life's many blessings! They are all around. Thanks for the reminder, Dawn — keep up the good work. Thoughtful and appreciative – two excellent qualities!
All great life changes/improvements!
I am very happy for you.
All great life changes/improvements! I am very happy for you.
Wonderful synopsis, Dawn, of how one's day to day routine changes when one chooses the better life. Our tiny island is not for everyone. It might be a little too slow for some, and lack amenities they consider "essential". As for me, I think it's as close to perfect as one can get in this life. Can't wait to come back Home.
Wonderful synopsis, Dawn, of how one's day to day routine changes when one chooses the better life. Our tiny island is not for everyone. It might be a little too slow for some, and lack amenities they consider "essential". As for me, I think it's as close to perfect as one can get in this life. Can't wait to come back Home.
Although I have never worn heels, I can relate to some degree with everything else.
The "NOWs" are so much better!
Very happy for you!!!
Although I have never worn heels, I can relate to some degree with everything else. The "NOWs" are so much better!Very happy for you!!!
Thanks, Joe! I'm glad you're enjoying the blog, and thanks for taking time to make a comment. As you clearly know, appreciating the good in our lives keeps bringing more of it our way!
Thanks, Joe! I'm glad you're enjoying the blog, and thanks for taking time to make a comment. As you clearly know, appreciating the good in our lives keeps bringing more of it our way!
Thanks so very much, tagal. (And no worries, I'm guessing you commented twice because you wondered what happened to the first one! I was offline this weekend so there was greater delay in the comments being published.)
Thanks so very much, tagal. (And no worries, I'm guessing you commented twice because you wondered what happened to the first one! I was offline this weekend so there was greater delay in the comments being published.)
Sarah, thank you so much! You can certainly appreciate it all, having chosen the better life for yourself! See you home soon.
Sarah, thank you so much! You can certainly appreciate it all, having chosen the better life for yourself! See you home soon.
Tagal, I love your humor! Also love that you're following along and taking the time to comment, thank you. Enjoys your "NOWs" as well!
Tagal, I love your humor! Also love that you're following along and taking the time to comment, thank you. Enjoys your "NOWs" as well!
Great report… and reminder that the choice of "a better life" is available to us all, anywhere, and any time!
Great report… and reminder that the choice of "a better life" is available to us all, anywhere, and any time!
Thanks so much for reading and taking the time to comment! I hope you are enjoying your Better Life, too!
Thanks so much for reading and taking the time to comment! I hope you are enjoying your Better Life, too!
Great story Dawn!!! Your parents sound awesome and I love the part about you dad putting together the 'sound track'. What a great idea!!!
Great story Dawn!!! Your parents sound awesome and I love the part about you dad putting together the 'sound track'. What a great idea!!!
Rita-Kay, thanks so much for reading and taking the time to comment. My parents are definitely awesome! And we still joke about "Chappy" 😉
Rita-Kay, thanks so much for reading and taking the time to comment. My parents are definitely awesome! And we still joke about "Chappy" 😉
Dawn it's great to finally have the back story on how you discovered the island. I too loved the memory of your Dad putting together the Chappy soundtrack. What a creative and sweet man! Thank you for sharing!
P.S. I am guilty of belting out "La Isla Bonita" when it's dark and there's a fire and hubby has gone to bed…there may also be wine involved. 🙂
Dawn it's great to finally have the back story on how you discovered the island. I too loved the memory of your Dad putting together the Chappy soundtrack. What a creative and sweet man! Thank you for sharing!P.S. I am guilty of belting out "La Isla Bonita" when it's dark and there's a fire and hubby has gone to bed…there may also be wine involved. 🙂
Sarai, Thanks for reading along and for your comment. Glad you liked the story. From one island singer to another, cheers!
Sarai, Thanks for reading along and for your comment. Glad you liked the story. From one island singer to another, cheers!
Since you have known "your" island for many years…what changes have you seen? The good, the bad? …probably no "ugly"
Since you have known "your" island for many years…what changes have you seen? The good, the bad? …probably no "ugly"
Great question! Lots of changes . . . to be answered soon. Thanks for your interest and for posting your question!
Great question! Lots of changes . . . to be answered soon. Thanks for your interest and for posting your question!
Just so you know — SHE did not eat this way in the States! Blogger's Mom
Just so you know — SHE did not eat this way in the States! Blogger's Mom
LOL, I can't deny it! I was queen of the cream sauces and all things cheese. Still love all that (and indulge in Stateside restaurants), but part of Choosing The Better Life is eating healthier. Not to mention spending lots of time in bikinis these days does wonders for motivating me to keep the cream sauce pounds off! Thanks for your comment, Mom, I think. 😉
LOL, I can't deny it! I was queen of the cream sauces and all things cheese. Still love all that (and indulge in Stateside restaurants), but part of Choosing The Better Life is eating healthier. Not to mention spending lots of time in bikinis these days does wonders for motivating me to keep the cream sauce pounds off! Thanks for your comment, Mom, I think. 😉
Awesome picture! As they say, "our plans aren't always His plans."
Awesome picture! As they say, "our plans aren't always His plans."
"Ain't that the truth!" as they also say. 😉 Thanks so much for reading and taking the time to comment.
"Ain't that the truth!" as they also say. 😉 Thanks so much for reading and taking the time to comment.
Beautifully worded, Dawn! I love the GPS visualization! I feel the same way. I believe in the sacredness of all paths.
Beautifully worded, Dawn! I love the GPS visualization! I feel the same way. I believe in the sacredness of all paths.
After 8 years on the island, I still can't properly clean a Grouper the way "the guys" do it. Loved the Fish Dinner post!
After 8 years on the island, I still can't properly clean a Grouper the way "the guys" do it. Loved the Fish Dinner post!
Sarah, I'm glad you understand. Thanks so much for taking the time to read and make the comment!
Sarah, I'm glad you understand. Thanks so much for taking the time to read and make the comment!
Sarah, thanks so much! Ugh, I know. One of these days maybe we'll come close?? At least I can wash the conch. 😉
Sarah, thanks so much! Ugh, I know. One of these days maybe we'll come close?? At least I can wash the conch. 😉
Dawn, this is a wonderful post and I'm so glad to have read it this morning. One's inner voice is a gift. The key is to get better and better at tuning into it and trusting it as we go through life. Have a blessed day – Lois
Dawn, this is a wonderful post and I'm so glad to have read it this morning. One's inner voice is a gift. The key is to get better and better at tuning into it and trusting it as we go through life. Have a blessed day – Lois
Lois, thank you! You sound very wise and tuned in. 😉 Blessings back to you!
Lois, thank you! You sound very wise and tuned in. 😉 Blessings back to you!
This is so true, trusting the nudges is essential. We all learn in our own way, now I listen.
This is so true, trusting the nudges is essential. We all learn in our own way, now I listen.
It definetely is a leap of faith. I took a plunge with no job a few years ago, moving to Hawaii and it paid off. I hope you'll love your island adventure.
It definetely is a leap of faith. I took a plunge with no job a few years ago, moving to Hawaii and it paid off. I hope you'll love your island adventure.
Lisa, thanks so much for your comment. From one listener to another! 😉
Lisa, thanks so much for your comment. From one listener to another! 😉
Lisa, I love your story! Thanks so much for taking the time to comment.
Lisa, I love your story! Thanks so much for taking the time to comment.
The charter flights sounds like an awesome way to go with a pet. I wish I could do that flying to Europe….lol I so understand the errands to get all the things you can't get on island, I did that when I lived on Guam.
The charter flights sounds like an awesome way to go with a pet. I wish I could do that flying to Europe….lol I so understand the errands to get all the things you can't get on island, I did that when I lived on Guam.
Thanks, Lisa. Thankfully, Angel is small enough that she can travel in her carrier with me on commercial flights, too. I would have a hard time putting her down in cargo if she was bigger!
Thanks, Lisa. Thankfully, Angel is small enough that she can travel in her carrier with me on commercial flights, too. I would have a hard time putting her down in cargo if she was bigger!
We are spiritual beings as well as physical, mental and emotional. Your blog is about you and all the above define you, your past experiences and present circumstannces. Thanks for sharing.
We are spiritual beings as well as physical, mental and emotional. Your blog is about you and all the above define you, your past experiences and present circumstannces. Thanks for sharing.
Tagal, I absolutely agree! Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment.
Tagal, I absolutely agree! Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment.
GREAT post, neighbor! It was a little trashy, though. I like the "recycling" for glass beer bottles in place on Smidgeon…smash them into little bits and then use the bits as aggregate for concrete projects.
GREAT post, neighbor! It was a little trashy, though. I like the "recycling" for glass beer bottles in place on Smidgeon…smash them into little bits and then use the bits as aggregate for concrete projects.
Thanks, Sarah! Talk to your local officials about possible improvements! 😉
Thanks, Sarah! Talk to your local officials about possible improvements! 😉
Fabulous post (As Always)! Wow, that lady with the Kalik is brave! My hubby would probably do that, but it would take a lot of wine to get me to do that!
Fabulous post (As Always)! Wow, that lady with the Kalik is brave! My hubby would probably do that, but it would take a lot of wine to get me to do that!
Thanks, Sarah! I'm so pleased that you're enjoying the blog and reading along. No kidding about the sharks!
Thanks, Sarah! I'm so pleased that you're enjoying the blog and reading along. No kidding about the sharks!
I love reading your blog and looking at the photos of a simpler, more natural life in process. It makes me think. I've lived in Connecticut for all of my life but dream of doing something so completely different, like you have done. It's scary to think about but exhilarating as well.
My spouse and I love the water so much. We spent our summers growing up on lakes. She lived on Lake Ontario in New York state from the end of June to the beginning of school, and I lived on Candlewood Lake in Connecticut.
I think we both dream of living on the water, where we belong. I hope we can make that dream a reality in our lives.
All the best,
Lois
I love reading your blog and looking at the photos of a simpler, more natural life in process. It makes me think. I've lived in Connecticut for all of my life but dream of doing something so completely different, like you have done. It's scary to think about but exhilarating as well.My spouse and I love the water so much. We spent our summers growing up on lakes. She lived on Lake Ontario in New York state from the end of June to the beginning of school, and I lived on Candlewood Lake in Connecticut.I think we both dream of living on the water, where we belong. I hope we can make that dream a reality in our lives.All the best,Lois
Lois, thanks for such a thoughtful comment. Yeah, there's something about the water – and this water in particular, for me – that has always given me such a sense of peace. Keep following your dream – whatever that may be for you!
Lois, thanks for such a thoughtful comment. Yeah, there's something about the water – and this water in particular, for me – that has always given me such a sense of peace. Keep following your dream – whatever that may be for you!
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LOL. Yup, that about sums it up! Thanks for your comment, Derra.
LOL. Yup, that about sums it up! Thanks for your comment, Derra.
Nudgings are good. Listening to those nudgings are even better. A faith that deepens and a love that is passionate are wonderful things. Here's to a journey that keeps getting better and better – Lois
P.S. I really like the love story part of this post – and the photo that goes with it 🙂
Nudgings are good. Listening to those nudgings are even better. A faith that deepens and a love that is passionate are wonderful things. Here's to a journey that keeps getting better and better – LoisP.S. I really like the love story part of this post – and the photo that goes with it 🙂
Thanks, Lois. LOL, yeah the "love story" is something people like (me too!), but also what I feel the need to protect, especially with Mr. Private. As for the picture, it's my favorite! Glad you like it, too. As always, thanks for following along.
Thanks, Lois. LOL, yeah the "love story" is something people like (me too!), but also what I feel the need to protect, especially with Mr. Private. As for the picture, it's my favorite! Glad you like it, too. As always, thanks for following along.
Beautiful. The story, you, your love for each other…just beautiful. Made me get all girly and teary at how Romantic your story is. Yes, I know there was stuff before that, but…*Sigh. Love you guys.
Beautiful. The story, you, your love for each other…just beautiful. Made me get all girly and teary at how Romantic your story is. Yes, I know there was stuff before that, but…*Sigh. Love you guys.
Quite simply Sarah, thank you! 🙂
Quite simply Sarah, thank you! 🙂
Have a Blessed and Relaxing Weekend!
Thanks, Sarah! You, too!
Thanks for continuing to remind us that the we can "choose the better life" right where each of us are. I am turning off my computer, going for a walk, picking up that book I have been trying to finish, going to Easter services at church on Sunday…then we'll see what's on the computer on Monday!Have a great weekend and we will "see you" then.
Wonderful, Tagal! I hope you had as delightful a weekend as that sounds. In the Bahamas, Easter Monday is a holiday, too, so I'm just now beginning the computer wade-through to catch up. 😉
ditto! I will be doing the same thing next week 🙂
ditto! I will be doing the same thing next week 🙂
OK. I get the boat maneuvers, rock knifing, even the pot boiling – 30 minutes – all possible. But do they really just pop out with a knock on the cutting board? I have a feeling that may be the hard part! And they're HOT too? What a fun adventure. Thanks for including us!
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Well, I was fixing the salad and making fish sandwiches, but yes! There was a fork involved to help pry out after the initial knocks. And my hands can't take that heat – I suspect we mortals would rinse them under cold water first. So glad you enjoyed the adventure! Thanks for your comment.
Yikes! Then good luck with your errands and enjoy a beautiful (and safe) journey!
Yikes! Then good luck with your errands and enjoy a beautiful (and safe) journey!
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Awesome photos! Love it.
Thanks! It really is a breath-taking view. Glad you like the pics and thanks for your comment!
Great pics; thanks for sharing. Who needs National Geographic!!
LOL, thanks, Tagal!
WOW! You definitely have REGATTA FEVER! It seems to be infectious too, because I could feel my heart speed up while scrolling through these photos. Seems like the only cure is salt water, yelling men, and floating orange buoys…I recommend you start treatment ASAP. 🙂
LOL, you've got it, Sarah! I will follow your prescription to a tee! Thanks for your comment.
I see that you love the islands just as much as I. Exploring your blog for the first time now. Great stuff. Keep it up!Cheers!
Yes, indeed, Ryan! Thanks so much for exploring and taking the time to comment. I enjoy your stuff, too! Glad to be connected.
Beautiful post and well-said! Happy Mother's Day to a fellow Doggy Mom!
Thanks, Sarah! YES, happy doggy-mama's day to you, too! For all the women who do not have children of their own – whether by choice or circumstance – you still deserve to be celebrated for your kind, wise, generous, nurturing souls. You also give so much to the children, family members, friends, DOGS and pets that you care for so well. Happy Day to you all, too!
What a great post – I'm so happy to have found your blog! :)I'm with you on the guacamole! I definitely could eat that all day. I could stare at the ocean all day. It's so peaceful and energizing at the same time. I live just over an hour away and never go – so maybe it's time to take a trip. 🙂
Oh Neighbor, you're making my belly growl thinking about that goat! MMMMMmm…have some for me! I agree on most of it, but I have trouble receiving compliments…they make me uncomfortable. I appreciate the sentiment behind them though. Great post, as always!
Jodi, I'm so happy we found each other's stuff! 🙂 Glad you enjoyed the blog post. Hope you are able to make time for some guacamole and/or ocean visits this weekend! Sorry for the delay in my response – had a last minute trip Stateside to take care of a few things. Happily back on the island now. Have a Soul Speak kind of day and thanks for your comment!
Hi Sarah! Thanks for your comment. Since the upcoming wedding is on the island, you will definitely get to enjoy some goat souse! As for you not liking to receive compliments – I've noticed. 😉 But you're too wonderful not to pass them on, so you'll just have to get used to it! 🙂 Thanks again for your support!
Jo Anne left this same poem and a portrait of our house too! It is timeless and captures the message living in the souls of us "island folk". Great post Neighbor!
Thanks, Sarah!
Island Busy is the best kind of busy. The only "down side" is that one hardly ever gets to cross anything off of the list.
Yup! As we say in the islands, "It is what it is!" 😉
Dearest Anonymous, I haven't forgotten about you! One of the downsides about my big move is that I still have stuff in storage – including all my old photo albums! I would love to be able to include some old pictures, contrasted with new pictures, in answering your question about the changes I've witnessed in my couple decades knowing this island. One of these days, I'll tackle a storage visit. Meanwhile, thank you for your patience!
Dearest Anonymous, I haven't forgotten about you! One of the downsides about my big move is that I still have stuff in storage – including all my old photo albums! I would love to be able to include some old pictures, contrasted with new pictures, in answering your question about the changes I've witnessed in my couple decades knowing this island. One of these days, I'll tackle a storage visit. Meanwhile, thank you for your patience!
Bravo! I just love your new story – it feels so happy and empowering and alive! I'm with you that while we can't always control our external circumstances, we can control our reaction to them. I don't think you're Pollyanna – I think you recognize how powerful our thoughts are, and you're taking responsibility for your role in your own life. That's a good thing! Thank you for sharing both this great post and my post. So glad we've connected! 🙂
Thank you so very much, Jodi! I've been delighted to connect with you as well through the power of words and like-minded hearts. Cheers to Soul Speak and your own Better Life!
Hi Dawn. This is really a great post – and you are a wonderful writer. You pulled me in with every sentence. I know just what you're talking about when you write about the dark days. I went through a long period of them a while ago – and the only way out was changing the mind set and doing the spiritual work. Thank you for sharing such a big part of yourself.
Lois, thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your comment. You are another of the like-minded bloggers that I'm so pleased to be getting to know through this forum!
Dawn, do you miss the practice of law at all? I know that at least for awhile I would be just fine being separated from it, but having spent so much of my life in and around the law, I think it would be tough to let go, both emotionally as well as intellectually. I know that there are so many advantages to your situation, but have you felt the need to replace the intellectual stimulation you may have had as a lawyer with something else since you have embraced the island life? Will you still keep your law license up to date, or have you permanently walked away from the profession?Glad to see that you are doing so well,Chris Esson
Chris, great to hear from you and thanks for your comment/questions! The answer is NO! With nuances, of course, because we lawyers tend to parse words. 🙂 That's all part of the "Big Life Change" part 2 to this question that I'll answer later this week. I'll make sure to incorporate answers to your specific questions. Thank you!
I am so very sure your insights, empathy and words of comfort will be a great help. But mostly your love will…that is one of the reasons God bestows us with dear friends. Blessings of peace and comfort.
What a lovely comment. Thank you so much and blessings to you!
Fabulous! I can taste the scorch looking at these pictures!
Wonderful! So glad the very taste came through the internet. 😉 Thanks for your comment.
Love the photos, especially of the light blue sea. Love seeing you in the water and all the fish. I've always loved snorkeling, have done it many times in the Caribbean. And I've also had conch many times while there as well. This post transports me to a different and beautiful way of life…and completely relaxes me. Thanks so much, Lois
Lois, thanks so much for your comment! Sounds like you have great island memories – glad to help transport you back for a little mental escape! 🙂
Great pictures! Looks like ya'll had a blast! Love the hands pic!
Thanks so much! "Island Busy" has kicked in again and vacation already feels like a world away. Definitely not complaining – love being home! Glad you enjoyed the post and pics, and thanks for commenting – and supporting my sappiness. 🙂
This is a beautiful review! I'm so glad you have connected. This book is so wonderful and sweet and poignant. I definitely recommend that everyone reads it. 🙂
Jodi, thanks so much for your comment. I also enjoyed your interview with Lois and Victoria on your Soul Speak blog not too long ago. Good stuff!
Too cool! I love how colorful the land crabs are. They have such beautiful patterns too. How exciting that you got to go "crabbin"…guess it's official: you're really an island girl.
Thanks for your comment, Sarah. As for "island girl" – hah! Perhaps I've passed the rookie level, but I still have a ways to go to hit the advanced level. Working on it! 🙂
Thank you both so much. xxoo Lois
My pleasure!
I clicked through to the Dean's Blue Hole link on Wikipedia, then watched the video there of a guy diving to the bottom with no tank or gear. I think I may have nightmares about this… Yikes!!!
Hello! Enjoying catching up on your blog this morning. I get a rare moment of silence and solitude these days so while up before the rest of the house this morning it seemed only fitting to read your blog and find this review! Hope you are well.
Nisha, thanks so much for reading and taking the time to comment! Glad you created a little silence and peace for yourself this morning. 🙂 Hugs!
LOL, it does kinda look like the stuff of nightmares. But what a supercool video (Underwater base jump). Amazing that the diver and the videographer can hold their breath so long. Anyway, I had not intention of attempting to dive that hole while I was there! Thanks so much for your comment, Becz1. 😉
As always, I am transported when I see your photos and read your words. How I wish I could be there now, if only for a day! All the best – Lois
Dawn – I am so happy he is okay. That was a very close call. He showed a lot of courage doing what he did! Lois
Thank you, Lois! I agree all 'round. 😉
Thank you so much, Lois. I'm glad my experience can be conveyed to you through this blog. All the best to you, too.
yikes! how terrifying. Glad he's ok.
Me, too! Thanks for checking out the blog and taking the time to comment. Good to see you here. 🙂
One of the things that makes me happy is reading your blog posts! It is the little things that really are important, taking a break and taking a breath. The french toast sounds extremely yummy and Angel is adorable. Reminds me of my little shih tzu when we are cooking. Have an awesome day Dawn.
And that, in turn, makes ME happy, Mara! I'm so glad to bring even the slightest of smiles to you and all of the Better Life readers. Hugs to your dog, and thanks so much for sharing.
The best stories are built on universal lessons — "little" things made big, or "big things made little. This is a great example of how a small thing can be very meaningful because it provides a connection with others — not to mention a magnificent breakfast!
Great blog my friend…I am hungry just looking at the pix…
Thank you for your very wise comment. I love connecting with you Better Lifers! I appreciate you reading and taking the time to comment.
Thanks, Tom! I appreciate you reading and taking the time to comment. Now go get some breakfast. 😉
Oops. I replied to you but it showed up below. Didn't want you to think I was ignoring you! 🙂 Thanks again.
Love the post, Neighbor! lol…btw, the bread maker has gone on to the great department store in the sky. I actually managed to kill it. I found happiness in getting back HOME to the island today. I cleaned and whipped up some wonderful, garlicky bean dip, and generally just nested. Happy Independence Day, fellow "ex-pat".
Glad you liked the post, Sarah. R.I.P. to your bread maker! Welcome home – I thought I noticed some signs of life over your way. Happy 4th!
Remember my friend, being "un-busy" is as much a deliberate, conscious and strategic choice as being busy. You're experiencing guilt, is all, left over from your former career, like some kind residual effect from a past drug habit! Or, perhaps you were raised Catholic…another kind of "drug habit" altogether, but the end result is the same.There are several good stories about choosing to be un-busy in "Chocolate Cows and Purple Cheese". From "This is What God Meant When He First Said 'Blue'":"In a world where progress is often measured by the ever-increasing complexity of the system polluting our minds, sapping our bodies and corrupting our spirits, we need the simplicity of spending real time, doing simple things, together."Dawn, you now have that gift. Take advantage of it openly, gladly and aggressively.Best wishes.
Thank you for your comment, Tom. Definitely, being unbusy is a choice. And you're right that I let the "shoulds" and guilt over not being "productive" chip away at me some days. But for now, I'm nursing a cup of coffee before I don exercise clothes and continue my unbusy path toward the weekend! I so enjoyed your book "Chocolate Cows and Purple Cheese" when I first read it. I'd love to go back and check out the stories through these new-phase-in-life eyes. Alas, it is currently in storage! At least it made the purge of the move! 😉 Cheers to simplicity!
OMG! Just catching up on some blog entries I missed. Love the pigs so much!
Theresa, thanks so much for taking the time to read and comment. Glad you love the pigs! Maybe our swimming pigs will have piglets again soon and I'll put up pics just for you!
The video is amazing. Love the photos and I love to snorkel – brings back great memories of vacations in the Bahamas and the Caribbean. Thanks Dawn 🙂
Thanks for commenting, Lois. Glad you enjoyed a trip down memory lane – underwater!
This is a fabulous blog post!! And the pics are stunning. I love it.Are you serious there are only 100 residents on this island? Crazy. And do you mind my asking, who is the young white boy? You mentioned you don't have any kids of your own. My apologies but I haven't read every post on your blog so I may have missed who he is along the way.
Glad you liked the post! YES, there are fewer than 100 full-time residents on this tiny island, which is less than 5 square miles. We have a thriving international community of rental visitors, boaters and people with vacation homes, so it's actually fairly lively. I don't mind you asking about the white boys at all. There are two American boys who live here full-time – their American momma started coming here as a baby and is now married to a Bahamian. Also, although native Bahamians on this island are predominantly dark-skinned, there are also white Bahamians throughout the islands. Thanks for taking the time to post your comment and questions!
Okay I guess that makes total sense. There are tons of white Jamaicans as well. I just don't know much about other islands. Thanks for enlightening me! 🙂
My pleasure! 🙂
Great post! What you, Beau, & the other camp organizers/volunteers are doing for the kids (& ultimately the island) is invaluable. This time in their lives is something they will look back on & smile as well as draw them together in an additional way other than just blood ties.Way to go, BLB!
Thanks so much, Sarah! The pleasure is truly mine. I think the adults have just as much fun as the kids, and I've loved getting to know them all. Glad you liked the post! Dawn, aka Dawn, aka BLB 🙂
Glad to see you back at the blog again…was afraid you'd quit, or worse. Stay safe during the storm.
Sorry to worry you, Tom! All is well here, and I'm glad to be blogging again. FYI to you and any other readers, if you are on Facebook, you can "like" my blog's page (https://www.facebook.com/IslandBlog). Even when I'm not posting to the blog, I try to drop little updates and tidbits there for you. Have a great week!
Wow, Neighbor! You beat us this time…despite our desire to, we never ventured up on the Ridge to brave its raging winds. Great pics. Yes, the whole time Hubby was up on the bloody roof I was mentally smacking him in the head. I couldn't believe he decided that roof repairs had to be done during 50mph winds! I am so thankful Isaac was so "easy on us" (compared to Irene). I continue to pray for the folks up North. Great post, as usual. Glad you are back on island! Now the Neighborhood is complete.
Sarah, as always, thanks so much for your comment! I'm very glad to be back with you – tropical storms and all!
Wonderful post and a very happy birthday to you and your Beau. Enjoyed all the pictures!!! The better life is glowing in your face and smiles!!
Great post, Neighbor! I feel like I'm living the parties all over again. It was so nice to celebrate with you and the rest of the community. Can I just say how much I LOVE those rare public expressions of affection between you and Beau! I know you guys stay low-key, but it warms both my and Hubby's heart when you guys are a little bit "lovey".
Thanks, Rita-Kay, so glad you liked it! And I appreciate you taking the time to comment. I look forward to seeing you back in the islands one of these days.
LOL. Thanks, Sarah! Thanks, too, for joining us in the celebrations – it wouldn't be the same without you and Hubby. I appreciate that you made a special effort to work in this last one around other plans. Island busy! 😉
Look like the birthdays were fantastic!!! You must pinch yourself every now and again, knowing this is your life now – you're in a place you love, surrounded by wonderful new friends and filled with love. What a wonderful celebration of LIFE. Awesome to see. Happy belated birthday and congratulations on choosing your better life!! 🙂
Christine, thanks for your warm and heartfelt comment! Cheers to your brighter side of life, too. 🙂
Oh Dear! What an adventure you have all had. It is difficult to deal with doggy emergencies living down on an island far from basic necessities. Glad you were able to catch a flight with her and get her looked at. VERY glad she is ok! Don't beat yourself up over this. Most people have these sorts of "oops episodes", and it's not like we intend to hurt our sweet little furry family. You're a wonderful Mommy, and I guarantee that is what Angel knows.
Thanks so much, Sarah. I felt so terrible! Thankfully, Angel is perky and fine and doesn't seem to hold it against me. 🙂
How precious Angel manages to ingest Aloe without going into spasms of "Blechism" I don't know. I've tried drinking Aloe tea for its medicinal value, and can't do it. It makes my very ears curl. Congrats on the new golf cart! Snazzy! Fancy Lady! I'll buy the drinks if you provide the ride tomorrow at around noon.
Thanks, Sarah! Unfortunately, I can't actually DRIVE the golf cart yet. Until the government licensing folks come to town, the vehicle lacks the required sticker and I don't want to "get booked" by the police under their new enforcement approach! LOL. Oh well, it's a good day to stay inside as the thunder rolls.
OMG. You poor thing. What a mess. Maybe you should re-name your blog "Choosing the More Adventurous Life???" So glad you're feeling better. I am in bed with tonsilitis. Yesterday could not speal or swallow. On steroids/antiobiotics/etc. Ugh. xxoo Jillian
I don't know, Jillian, tonsillitis sounds like an adventure itself! Ugh, indeed. You know, I think our bodies have a way of FORCING us to slow down sometimes. I'm just sayin' . . . 😉 Thanks for your comment!
Wow! When you told me you stepped on a sea urchin I didn't realize it entailed all of THAT! Had I known you were enduring a hangover of those proportions I certainly wouldn't have called as early as I did. 🙁 At least the whole adventure made a good story. Beau is such a sweetie. As much as you take care of him, it was good for him to take care of you in your hour of need. P.S. Don't do that again.
Thanks, Sarah! I laughed at so much of your note, I don't even know where to begin. 🙂 Too bad my "hour of need" was all self-imposed! P.S. Okay!
Oh NO! That's horrible! Sounded like paradise at first, and then… NOT. Glad you've healed and are feeling better – except the bruised ego, of course, which we all get now and again… *sigh*Hope your next couple of weeks (at least) are less eventful!P.S. Hope there aren't many typos here – have had a few glasses of red wine…
LOL, thanks, Christine! Yes, other than my dog fiasco, it's been very calm lately! No typos – I knew you were a "glass half full" kinda gal, but I guess Friday evenings are reason to fill the rest of the glass! 😉 Thanks for commenting.
Oh WOW, Dawn! Those are the most beautiful, spiritual sunrise pictures I think I've ever seen. Amazing, just amazing! Thank you so much for letting me know where my errant puppy dog had disappeared! Glad you three enjoyed a good visit and I just wish I'd followed her over. 🙂 Have a beautiful peaceful rest of your day!
Thanks so much, Sarah! Coming from your creative photographer self, I consider that high praise. Yes, I should've given you a sniff of my chocolate cake cuz it's long gone now! 🙂 Have a beautiful, peaceful day yourself!
Hi neighbor,Thank you so much for this mornings blog. So eloquent and descriptive,it made me feel as if I was actually there, but in doing so, it also made me feel soooooo homesick, it was hard to hold back the tears! What a simple, peaceful and wonderful life. You, and the lucky few that experience it on a daily basis are truly blessed!See you soon I hope. Barry
Barry, thank you so much for your sweet comment. You and Suzanne are part of my sunrise EVERY day! Since I don't usually haul out to the ocean beach, I simply gaze at the eastern sky from my front porch, necessarily seeing your house and thinking warm thoughts of you. Will be great to have you back to your island home. See you soon, and thanks for taking the time to post a comment.
Your inner peace pervades this piece! Thank you for the refreshing reminder of life – the better life, for all of us!
Thank you so much for your comment! Although I (obviously!) love my island setting, I always hope to convey the point that our Better Life can be wherever we are. Glad you got that out of today's post. Enjoy your own Better Life, inner peace and have a wonderful weekend!
Thanks for the beautiful pictures!!! I enjoy the change of seasons and we started fall yesterday–leaves are starting to fall and the temperature is cooling off a little bit—it is also college football season and ECU played UNC yesterday on ESPN!!! In the midst of that, it was inspiring to see your beautiful sunrise pictures which make me wish for a last trip to the beach! Hope you and Beau and puppy are doing well after your summer adventures!XO, J
Thanks, JJ, for taking the time to comment! I also enjoy the change of seasons. It's just that they're much more subtle here! 🙂 Glad to hear all is well in your corner of the world. Have a good back-to-school and fall season!
Aunt Dawn, I want to run away live with you!!! School is stressful and Kansas is noticeably lacking in sunrise, rainbow, and ocean departments. Also, I'm pretty sure Jasper was meant to be an island dog.Love, Brenen and JBoo
Oh, sweet Brenen, the life of a college girl – writing at 2am! 🙂 Thanks for your entertaining comments. Never fear, fearless woman. I, too, was a landlocked Kansas collegiate – you just never know where you'll end up! Keep enjoying the journey, and the antics of Jasper along the way. Love and hugs to you!
What a pleasure it was to share our mountain life with you two, and a couple of mountain beers as well! Your photos truly capture the splendor of this place. We miss the Bahamas, and the turquoise waters are calling, as always. Continue to share your better life, and uplifting stories. Til we meet again, Happy Trails.
Dear friend, thanks for your comment and a lovely lunch together! I'm so glad you think the photos came close to doing justice to your majestic homeland. We hope to see you soon, in one time zone or another! Happy trails, indeed.
Wow, Dawn! Those pictures are absolutely stunning! I have to admit that I was not expecting the one of Beau on a horse, so I about fell out of my chair to yell at Hubby to look at it. Wonderful! So glad you guys got away for some "You Time"…man, did you ever get AWAY! Thank you for sharing your Better Life!
Wow! Those are enormous compared to the [what I now realize are dinky] ones I wrote about on my blog! And I was intrigued by the details you had about removing the inedible parts…I don't think anyone did any of that during my one whelks experience, they all just seemed to eat them whole. Great post – loved the pictures and the detailed descriptions of how to pick them! Thanks so much for sharing!-Patty (islandObsessions.com)
Thanks, Sarah, how funny! Yes, I love that pic of Beau on the horse. (And perhaps he's getting more comfortable about the blog but he pre-approved the posting, LOL!) It was a really wonderful trip. Glad you enjoyed it vicariously!
So glad you enjoyed the post, Patty! I enjoyed yours, too. Fun to see the similarities and differences in our island countries. Since then, I've had whelks beachside with locals, no butter, just eating them out of the shell. I suspect Beau was giving me a careful, gourmet experience for my first time. 🙂
This is the greatest post ever! I love those pigs!! And the pics of your trip out west are unreal. I didn't even know ou were going! Amazing.Jillian
Thanks for your comment, Jillian! So glad you enjoyed both posts. The trip really was fantastic – as are the pigs!
What a touching homage to your Brave One. Brought tears to my eyes. As you know, I can totally relate. Happiest Birthday wishes to Slick and see you around the Cay for weekend celebrations. Just so I'm clear: The puffer fish did or did not count? LOL.
Thanks for your comment, Sarah. And cheers to your Brave One and your supportive love. As for the puffer fish, turns out they did allow it AND it won for biggest fish!! What a fun weekend.
Thank you for that experience. It was beautiful and so are you! xo
Thank you, Coach YaSheeka! I’m so pleased that you joined me on that special experience through this blog!
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Funny, I’m reading Pollyanna right now on a friend’s recommendation that we should be more like her!
I’m glad you have “bouyed” your spirit (lol)
Thanks, Harvard Gringo! I’m glad, too! 🙂 I haven’t thought about the actual book in a while – maybe time for another read! Thanks for the inspiration.
I love it! It looks awesome! I’m so glad you’re back:-)
Thanks so much for commenting, Ty! I’m delighted to be back with you and our fellow Better Lifers. 🙂
Dawn, the site looks fantastic! It’s easy to navigate and the images are wonderful! Congratulations!!
Have a wonderful Christmas, and I look forward to your Better Life posts in the new year! 🙂
Thanks so much, Christine! I’m enjoying the new site, too, and look forward to posting again in 2013. Meanwhile, Merry Christmas! Have a wonderful holiday with your family.
It looks fantastic! I’m loving the multiple photo header, and the layout looks great!
Thanks so much, Momma Expat! I’m having fun with it and am thrilled that Better Lifers seem to like it, too! 🙂
Yay! My choice of photo made the cut! 🙂 The new site flows much nicer, Dawn.
Darin, thanks so much for commenting! Glad you like the outcome. 🙂
Hi Dawn! It was great to see you again. And I LOVE your new blog header! Take care, and we hope to see you again soon! Wayne & Sharon & Callie.
Thanks so much for commenting, Sharon! Happy happy new year!
So nice to see you beautiful face! Sorry – I missed you over the holiday!
Lovely to see you pop up here, Heather! Happy new year to you and yours.
Hi Dawn,
I so love your attitude and outlook on life! The concept of focusing on gratefulness in our lives is a beautiful one and it’s something that is easy for us to forget living our crazy lives! Thanks for the reminder!
You’ve been great about keeping tabs on my blog posts (thank you so much!) and I’m ashamed that I haven’t done such a great job of doing the same with yours. For a lot of us, 2013 is about changing our mindsets and really concentrating on what truly matters. For me, that means focusing more on my connections with people – especially those with whom I share so much in common. So, I’m going to aim to do better at checking on you and your adventures. 🙂
Your blog is looking great – they really are a labor of love, aren’t they? Your venture into video blogging is a fantastic one and I look forward to new installments.
Happy New Year again!
-Patty
Patty, thank you for such thoughtful comments. Great to see you here. 🙂 Best wishes rebuilding your blog – I look forward to seeing more from you. From one islander to another, happy new year!
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Hello Dawn, I love you pictures, amazing job!! Im looking foward to coming back down this Febuary. See you soon! This time the guys will win the scavenger hunt!!
Shannon
(Butchs cousin)
Shannon, thanks so much for commenting! I look forward to seeing you next month – and what you come up with in the scavenger hunt!
A happy, happy new year to you, Dawn! It’s so wonderful to see and hear you! A beautiful video post. (Hmmmm… you’ve inspired me to consider doing some video posts as well).
I too am grateful for so much – for all the amazing aspects of my life, as well as the difficult lessons. It’s all led me to this moment.
Onward and upward in 2013! Looking forward to seeing where it takes you, as well! 🙂
Christine, delightful to hear from you! Thanks for your comment and support. We’ve come a long way, baby! 🙂 Onward and upward, indeed. I say go for it and step into the vlog world with me; it’s not as daunting as it may seem…
Hi, Is wonderful to discover your blog, as in less than six months I am relocating from my birth country of New Zealand to my husbands country of Morocco., He relocated here almost 3 years ago, a few months ago I decided it was time for us to live in Morocco, for a better life.:) Lisa
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Lisa, delighted to have you join us! And GOOD for you for making decisions for your own Better Life. 🙂 I look forward to hearing how it goes. Please keep me posted!
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Yipes! Hope you’re feeling better soon. So far everyone in the H household has been spared, save a few seasonal sniffles and such.
Agreed, the flu is the pits! Even worse, to get sick in paradise:( I’m so glad you’re getting back on your feet and feeling better. I look forward to hearing from you.
Thanks, Tom and Ty! Great to hear from each of you, and I’m glad you and your families are well. Yup, I’m just taking it easy. Angel is scampering on the back deck while I nurse a cup o’tea. Thinking it may be nap time…
Be well… rest…. BE!!
Thanks, Paulette! I’m feeling good – just taking it easy. Special hugs to you. Peace.
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Wow, that sure does sound like some potent stuff! The yelling after each shot made me laugh, but I’m sure it was key to the recovery process. 🙂 I hope you’ve recovered a bit more by now as the flu is no fun at all! Get rest and feel better soon!
Thanks for commenting, Patty, and for your well wishes. Yes, I’m much better. And, yes, yelling after each bush medicine shot was key to my recovery. 🙂 Hope you’ve been healthy, and I’m sure you could come up with some bush medicine of your own if you need it! Have a great week.
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Last time I felt the scare of seasickness I was with a group of travel writer in the Exumas. Basically strangers but with the power to tell stories to thousands. Not good. I fought through the need to lean over the side, instead just laying down and closing my eyes. Seemed to help at the time.
I still caught a little grief from the group being that I was they only Floridian in the group who went out on boats almost every weekend. So much for being the cool guy on the water.
Great story!
Cheers.
Ryan, oh no! LOL. (And in the Exumas, too!) That is DEFINITELY a scare in front of travel writers! Glad you made it through unscathed. Thanks for sharing your story. 🙂
Dawn, we’ve all been there. I use to be the jokester, laughing at everyone as they became seasick on fishing trips. and lo and behold i was the one,leaning over the side of the boat on a fishing trip, right after we departed the harbour in nassau. great story!
Oh no, Fabian (Bahamasdread)! Sick in your own backyard, so to speak. Having to take a hit to your own jokester pride! I feel ya. Glad you liked my story, and thanks for commenting! Hearing similar stories from other Caribbean veterans is definitely helping me feel less ridiculous about it all. 😉
Dawn, all I can say is that it happens to the best of us. I only ever been seasick once, being stuck in a dingy. Hang in there 🙂
Oh yeah, I bet it’d be even tougher in a dinghy! Thanks for your comment, Ty, and your empathy!
Anytime! 🙂
Dawn-
Isn’t being seasick the worst feeling? Just debilitating. It doesn’t happen that often to me but it is completely overpowering when it does. Sometimes I think my body likes to throw a little “oh, so you think you’re in charge” moment at me when I’m feeling like I’ve got it all together. As I write on my own blog recently about vulnerability I seem only to have turned up the volume and brought more vulnerability into my own life. Guess there’s more to look at there huh?
You are so right, Lorena! Also interesting how seasickness is worldwide, from your Alaskan version to my Bahamian version! Thanks for commenting!
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Oh you poor poor dear! Like everyone else said, we’ve all been there. Like you said, at least it was just you and Beau, and at least he’s sweet enough to come back in. I hope it is at least another 41 years until your next go-round with sea sickness.
Thanks for commiserating with me, Sarah!
Now….
Oooh, I like that, Bryan! Seize the moment. Very appropriate for one whose Twitter tagline reads “Carpe the HELL out of diem!” 🙂
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I love your word, and I think it’s exactly perfect! I can’t wait to see what you write this year! 🙂
Me, too! 🙂 Jodi, thanks again for the inspiration!
Really Dawn, I love ya, and I admire your spirit and your writing, but this borders on “cruel and unusual punishment” for those of us here in the Midwest, where today it is, literally, below zero. As a former lawyer and Chicagoan, you should know better! 🙂
Ugh. My sincere apologies, especially since I confess that I sometimes – gulp – forget that it’s cold elsewhere! But, now, I am remembering all too well. Perhaps your simple joys today will come in the form of a crackling fire, snuggling up to a cozy loved one, the still in the chill, the peaceful quietude of shoveling snow (okay, maybe not that)… 😉 Thanks for commenting!
Love this, Dawn! The pics are gorgeous, and reflect so well your beautiful Better Life philosophy. I think my fave is the “Simplicity in a new day” – it somehow speaks to me of quiet, calm potential.
It’s so easy to complicate life when we think from the head. Thank you for reminding me to appreciate quiet moments and the beauty of nature (which, at the moment, is the fluffy snow outside my window), and for bringing me right back to my heart, where all is calm. So much to be grateful for. 🙂
Christine, you have such a beautiful way with words, most likely stemming from your beautiful spirit. 🙂 Enjoy the calm – and the fluffy snow! Thanks for commenting.
I love your word, and that you’re feeling super-inspired! So exciting. I’m confident your freelance writing business will keep you hopping, but equally confident that you’ll remain heart-centered – for that’s what brought you to choose a better life in the first place… your heart!
WRITE, baby, WRITE! Looking forward to reading!!! 🙂
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 🙂
So funny!!! Must’ve been quite the sight for Beau! Great job, though – your hair looks like a pro did it! (And I’m speaking as someone who’s gone to a salon for years to tame the grey that came early). Good for you for keeping your cool when you didn’t know what the results would be… I’m not sure I’d have been that calm.
Great post – you had me grinning from ear to ear! 🙂
Hah! Thanks, Christine. I’m glad you saw as much humor in it as I did. And I’m crossing my fingers that, like my paternal grandmother who I take after, the blonde will serve as a buffer to grays for decades to come. I guess we’ll see! Thanks for commenting.
I only wish I had blond hair! My mom has been highlighting her hair since the 80’s and of course HJ has some “dark blonde” hair. But this girl, along with wanting straight hair has always wanted freckles and blond hair. Hilarious story!
Thanks, Jacki! I suppose the grass is always greener . . . But who ever WANTS freckles?! 🙂
Dawn, thank you for such a interesting blog today. I loved seeing the commercial for the Bahamas. I wasn’t aware of it, since I’m not a football fan, and didn’t watch the Super Bowl. Watching it gave me goosebumps.
I also enjoyed the pictures of the mail boat. I had always heard so much about traveling on a mail boat, but had never been aboard .
Thanks for commenting, Suzanne! I confess I mostly watch the Super Bowl for its commercials and the social aspects of getting together for the big game. 🙂 Glad you enjoyed the blog. The mail boat trip was different from my transportation norms, which made it so interesting! I’ll probably still stick to a quickie flight most times in the future, but I’m glad to have had the experience. Enjoy your weekend!
Hey Dawn,
This is so amazing. I always wonder how their mail system worked. That’s amazing and cool. Your pictures are awesome. I really enjoy reading about your adventures in the Bahamas. The commericals are correct it is better in the Bahamas. Enjoy your weekend.
Cherylle W.
Cheryl, what a delight to have you commenting! Thanks so much, and enjoy your weekend, too!
Dawn, I’m so sorry we didn’t come down to the Regatta,as we are still in Nassau. Had no idea Beau was racing!! We’ll be coming your way soon. Can’t wait to visit. We are getting the bottom of the boat painted nxt wk and then I’m ready to cruise!!!!! Love your blog, keep up the good work!!!
Thanks for commenting, Rita-Kay! The Nassau Regatta was last fall, so you didn’t miss us recently. Glad you’ll get to cruise and head this way soon. I’m so glad you like the blog – thanks for following!
Hi dawn, loved your post about superbowl and the mailboat experience.I’ve lived in nassau for most of my life, but never travelled by mailboat. totally a different way to see the islands. just like you, i watched superbowl at a rowdy party in nassau and the entire party went silent as the ad played.
and the whole place erupted with cheers, when it was over. honestly that was one of the proudest moments of being a bahamian, to see bahamians proud to see their island showcased on a global stage.
i also wrote a post about it, check it out some time! http://sandyslipper.com/the-bahamas-wins-honors-for-best-superbowl-commercial-of-2013/
Thanks for commenting, Fabian. Give the mailboat a try sometime! If you prepare for the “experience” of it, knowing you’re not in for a luxury cruise, it’s a great way to see the out islands. I did see your Super Bowl post the other day and smiled at our similar experience. I was reading quickly and am behind on blog-commenting, so sorry I didn’t say anything to you there yet! Cheers to the Bahamas!
When the sun sets in the U.P. of Michigan, right into Lake Superior (or so it seems) we like to say that you can hear it “sizzle.”
I am happy for you my friend. Happy anniversary!
Sizzle! That’s lovely, Tom. Here, it’s quietly peaceful, but we’re always on the lookout for a green flash. Thanks for the well wishes and comment!
Wonderful reflection and inspiring…..as I grind away as a stay at home mom missing every single sunset. :-).
Thanks, Casey. I suppose you’re up early enough to catch sunrise then! 😉
I know that view very intimately and we miss it….but so happy that it’s you and “Beau” enjoying it now.
Thanks so much for your comment, JoAnne! Wonderful to hear from you, and good that you get at least a little vicarious view. In case you missed it before, this link is especially for you.
Ah, stunning! It’s times of reflection – often while enjoying the quiet beauty of something like a gorgeous, painted sky – that make us truly appreciate the journey that has led us to where we are now. I’m so glad you’ve chosen your better life and are enjoying all that it can bring! Happy two-year anni of the departure from a frenetic big-city pace that led, eventually, to a hectic but wonderful pace in the sun and sand. Hugs.
Thank you, Christine! I appreciate the sentiment. Plus, your comment is so eloquently put, that I shake my head in awe – no wonder you’re such a great Brighter Side blogger!
You’re so welcome! And thank YOU, my friend!
Two years later I still have to stop myself every morning from saying “Good morning, Dawn” when I walk by your office. It will always be your office and you are still missed every day!
Aww, thanks, Melissa! I think of you often, too. Your comment reminds me of walking into my family home for YEARS after our family dog had passed on to doggy heaven and immediately calling out to her like I had for so many years. Thankfully, I’m still around to answer you. 😉 Thanks for commenting!
Your “Foodie Friday” gets my vote, although it could be a Tasty Tuesday also, for example. Fresh seafood -growing up in So. FL.- IS my favorite food. Would love to learn more about preparing conch in multiple ways. Smackin’ my Lips READY!!!
Tasty Tuesday! Love it! There’s SO MUCH to do with conch, and it’s something I’ve never done myself, so this needs to be top of the priority list. (In fact, I just told Beau I was craving conch fritters from a local restaurant tonight. He scolded me for clogging my arteries, but oh well!)
Hi dawn i really enjoyed, reading your article on the steam fish, and I’m excited about your other cooking escapades. I loved the disclaimer at the beginning 🙂
Thanks, Fabian! As for the disclaimer, you nailed it in referring to my cooking ESCAPADES! People need to know what they’re getting into with my “foodie” posts. Hah! And, I suppose the lawyer in me is not dead. 😉 Have a great island weekend!
Yay!!! I’m so excited about your Foodie Fridays (or Tasty Tuesdays, or, for that matter, Mouth-watering Mondays)! Feel free to inspire us with island fare ANY day of the week! Can’t promise I won’t drool, though. That hogfish looked soooo good!
I’m excited, too! And it’s fun to get everyone’s feedback. Mouth-watering Mondays! Love it! My readers are so creative – y’all should think about writing your own blogs. Oh, wait. 🙂
Congratulations on the Liebster Award!! So well deserved. And thank you so much for the nomination – I’m honoured!!
I loved reading your answers above, and the questions you created. 🙂
Thanks, Christine. And congrats on YOUR nomination, which is ever so deserved! I look forward to learning your answers . . .
Dawn, so glad we’ve connected and become friends. Thanks for the inspiration, humour, great ideas and support! You shine. 🙂 I look forward to us connecting more this year.
Thanks so much for your kind comment, Christine, and everything else! “You shine,” too, and I love your way with words. 🙂
Oh NO, Dawn!!! How horrible! I hadn’t seen this post until now. Bet it’s heartening to know that sea veterans also aren’t immune.
From my last post, you know that I was VERY prone to motion sickness in childhood, and occasionally in adulthood as well. Well, back in university I was traveling in Belize and went snorkeling, and actually felt seasick!! (we were snorkeling along the top of the water). I didn’t know you could be seasick while snorkeling. *sigh* And because of it, our whole group had to turn back. Very embarrassing!
Oh no, Christine! You have a serious case of motion sickness!! I love how brave and gutsy (no pun intended) you are to keep trying fun new experiences despite that! Thanks for sharing. We can all relate. 🙂
Happy anniversary! What a lovely post full of so many wonderful people…wishing you many more awesome years, blogging and otherwise 🙂 xx
Thanks so much, Michelle! For this comment and your ongoing inspiration. Cheers!
I love you, sweetie pie!!!! What an adorable post. I feel so blessed to know you!
Thanks, Hedda Sue!! The pleasure is all mine. 🙂
I come from an island…close to the ocean I always find my peace. I find the experiences you write about very interesting…and I wonder how different my life would have been if I had stayed there. I’m looking forward to,those seafood recipes.
Wow, Tery. Profound thoughts! I’ve always felt peace most by the ocean too. A powerful connection! Our lives can take so many different paths. Interesting to wonder about. For me, I have to make the most of where I’m at to feel good. And if I can’t, then I change it! 😉 You are a pro at Better Life philosophy and do the same, I know. Personally, I’m thankful that your life path took you the direction it did so that I have the pleasure of interacting with you! xoxo
Thank you for visiting World Moms Blog! I look forward to reading your post on the Bahamas!
Jen 🙂
Thanks, Jen! I was delighted to visit WMB and enjoyed Momma Expat’s guest blog there. Thanks for visiting us here, too! Have a great weekend.
Dawn this post definitely resonated with me. I’ve been blogging for about 3 years and I know about all of the up’s and downs you mentioned. Some days it take a real inner motivation to get that post written and posted and the hours poured on finding a great pic, the readers will never know.
But a trick I definitely learned half-way through is to track the stats a lot less and keep blogging for the love and passion it gives to send out a good article.
2nd piece of good advice, i learned from another blogger. That post you may have spent days writing and felt like it should have won a Pulitzer prize, may very well not get even one response. Don’t take it personally.
Keep up the great work.
p.s I follow some of the bloggers who go to that blogher conference and everyone raves about it. I secretly learn a lot from them, women have a way different style of writing than men, and their words are colorful!!
Fabian, thanks so much for your comment. What fantastic advice! I agree about stats. I write what I like to, because I love to. I’ve largely ignored stats this whole first year, but think it’s an area I need to familiarize myself with now, just to keep the learning curve going. Writing for SEO/stat purposes, however, will never be part of our Better Life. Also great advice not to take “quiet” posts personally – I need to get better at that. 🙂 I’m delighted that you have also heard good things about BlogHer’13. I’ll share anything I learn with you – in colorful words, of course. 🙂 BTW, I’m behind on blog-reading but I see that you’ve posted another tantalizing post for us foodies and I look forward to reading it soon! Thanks for being a loyal follower and a wonderful support!
Secretly I’m kind of hoping, you try your hand at cooking the steam snapper and peas n rice dish. I’m horrible at peas n rice and need a good recipe. 🙂
hi~
i’m in the process of moving to Jamaica… it’s good to read bits from people who’ve done things like this, keeps me encouraged when the red tape and whatnot gets frustrating, or when i momentarily wonder if this is maybe crazy (fortunately those moments are pretty rare)… so, just wanted to thank you in general… that’s why i read your blog… have a lovely day
Tanya, thank you so very much for commenting. I don’t believe we’ve “talked” before, so I’m delighted to hear from you. I’m especially pleased to know what the draw of the blog is for you. A move to Jamaica sounds exciting! Not crazy at all. Bold and courageous, perhaps. Leaving our communities to jaunt off to an island may sound daunting and “crazy” to some who remain behind. But, as I’ve entered the world of travel bloggers, expat bloggers, etc., it’s AMAZING to see how very many people are out there doing it – successfully, happily. So hang in there! Yes, red tape, headaches and all the usual frustrations of life once you get there – but island living is pretty fabulous. 🙂
good morning Dawn! no, we haven’t really ‘talked’ and i admit i don’t comment much on fb either, but i’m Ann Cognito on your fb page… and yes, living here is a whole ‘nother perspective on what’s important… the tangles of red tape just make me realize how important this really is, and it keeps me thinking of the things i want to do here… i doff my (big stooshy sun)hat to you for doing it yourself and making it work, and for putting yourself here to be encouraging to others! maybe when i get settled, a blog would be a good idea so i can try to do the same… meanwhile, will just keep believing… have a lovely day 🙂
Thanks again, Tanya. (I’ve noticed “Ann Cognito” before and thought it was a cute name play.) Enjoy your island weekend!
That was a great write up on how to tackle the lobster head and turn it into a real treat. In my house we’ve been eating the meat out of the lobster head, since I was a little kid. It wasn’t until I visited the US did I realize other people only ate the tails, even in home preparation cases. But oh, it’s so delicious. I can’t wait to see what you tackle for next Friday.
Thanks, Fabian! As a Bahamian, you know your stuff on this front, so I’m glad you liked the post. Hmmm, I’m hungry now and craving some tuna-n-grits. That’s bound to be a post one of these Foodie Fridays…
We save the legs from the really big ones and eat them just like you showed in your last pic with the steamed meat and butter. Yum! But I’m not too sure we can wrestle one of those huge heads into a pot in the galley of our boat. I applaud your efforts in honoring the whole, beautiful lobster! Thanks for sharing the process!
Thanks for commenting, Debi! Yes, it could be daunting in a small galley, but I’m confident in your sailorgirl skills. 🙂 Reading your comment made me hungry for legs in butter all over again!
Fascinating! I found your post through Heather Fiore – our sons are in kindergarten together!
Thanks, Christine! Very sweet of you (and Heather). I’m especially delighted that you commented because I was able to check out your website. Looks interesting and I’ll dig in deeper soon!
Wow! That was a HUGE lobster head! Impressive! I found your detailed description of the cooking and dismantling of it to be really interesting – it reminded me (sort of) of picking meat from blue crabs that are common up here in the Washington DC area during the summer. Good thing to not let this massive lobster head go to waste! Thanks for sharing!
Thanks cariborbust (Patty), so glad you liked the post! I haven’t had blue crabs but know people love them. I suppose a little less time-consuming since they’re smaller – but then you have to do more of them for a full belly! 🙂 Thanks for commenting.
OMG Dawn, I am literally drooling over here. Can hardly wait til July when we take our annual trip to Abaco. There’s nothing like lobster and crab straight from the Sea. Great post!
Thanks so much, Linda! I’m actually cooking with some of the leftover lobster head tonight. Likely to be an upcoming post. 😉 Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
Yum! Cheesy, creamy, Lobster-y :),….that gets my vote! Looking forward to some conch recipes also.
I recall a new found love for conch that was discovered on your very island some 20+ years ago!
Don’t think I’ve had it as good since and not very often. But I don’t think it would ever taste as good.
For me, A key ingredient to a great meal is the experience as well! On a side note, I’m fully caught up on your blog, throughly enjoying living vicariously thru you! <3 K.
Kari, delightful to see you here! Thanks for following the blog and for your comment. Conch recipes are definitely in our future! My problem is that I usually eat it so fast I forget to take pictures. 🙂 20+ years ago, time flies, fun and tasty then, fun and tasty now! Agreed that experience is part of the culinary fun! Have a great weekend.
Hi Dawn. It’s funny-I just hit your blog today for the first time. I actually looked at my hubby last night and said if I don’t leave the stress of my job I’m going to die of a heart attack or something even more horrible. “We need to go to an island somewhere” is what I seriously said. After he moved his eyebrows in a manner I have never witnessed from a human (I’m a nurse…) he said “you are crazy”. And here I am at your site. Things that make you go hmmmmmm…..
So, how would we support ourselves on an Island, we’re not spring chickens anymore?
Love it and You are really great and interesting-keep writing sweetie.
JO
Wow, Jo, welcome! I don’t believe in “coincidences,” so keep exploring and see how you continue to feel! You just never know. 🙂 Yes, income/support is key. For me, it’s living on savings from my years as a lawyer, a generous Beau and family, and a transitional career as a freelance writer. The internet has opened up tons of opportunities for travelers, island dwellers and “location independent” workers. Since you already seem to be scouring the internet to feed this new dream, look for expat blogs and you’ll see tons of variety in how they support themselves. Twitter is a great resource, too. Also, the work rules of your adopted country will be important. It’s possible you could even get a permit to work as a nurse in your new environment! Or, maybe you’ll find that this current dream is just starting you down a path that will take an entirely different direction. (I thought I was going to move to Nashville and focus on songwriting!!) Regardless, cheers to you for paying attention to how you feel, being willing to make changes and Choosing your own Better Life! Best wishes and keep in touch.
Waaaaaah!!! 🙁 SO stressful. WOW – I was right with you through the whole blog post! That must have been horrible! And awful to have to wait to find out if she was okay. Thank goodness all was fine. And do not be hard on yourself – you were just trying to do the best you can to alleviate her pain. You’re a great mommy!
Thanks, Christine! When I’m not poisoning her, I’m spoiling her. Sigh. 🙂 I always said I’d be better disciplined with children than I am with my dog. 🙂 Thanks for your comment!
Woohoo! Can’t wait to read all about it! Thinking of you guys. 🙂
Thanks, Christine! We’re getting excited . . .
This is so interesting! I’ve never seen a boat launched but it reminds me of this gigantic wooden toy solider my neighbor has. On Thanksgiving, all of the men in the neighborhood help pull it upright with ropes and pulls much like the boat. He has the biggest Christmas light display in the area and the toy solider is his crowning decoration.
A giant wooden toy soldier! At least he doesn’t have to get it to float or move fast. 🙂 That sounds fascinating – next Thanksgiving blog post perhaps! 😉 Thanks for your comment!
This is getting exciting. I’ve never seen a boat launched and you had me hanging on to every word. I can’t wait to see how they get the 60 foot masts onto the boat and attached.Loving it!!
Thanks for your comment, Fabian. It is indeed exciting!
The info on the launching of the Tida Wave was very informative. Now I know how they get that big winning machine into the water. The boat looks very nice, ready to go down to the 60th George Town Regatta. I wish the captain and its crew all the best in these various races, I hope they comes out victorious. I look forward in watching the A-class races when I go to the regatta.
Thanks for your comment, Marsha. Enjoy a wonderful Regatta!
Love tuna and grits! Always get some at Flo’s whenever I’m in Treasure Cay.
Yum! It’s always fun to see how different places do it, although – unlike other Bahamian dishes – the style for tuna and grits seems fairly universal. Thanks for your comment, Chris!
I love tuna and grits. I can eat this about two to three times a week, because its so easy to prepare and taste great.
Fabian, I suspected you would be a fan. 🙂 I just got some yellow grits in George Town. They’re in a simple plastic bag with no instructions, so it looks like my next lesson will be cooked yellow grits! Thanks for commenting.
I’ve had booth separately, but never together. Do you add any flavoring to your grits?
Good to hear from you, Ty. I had eaten both separately before also – it’s an entirely different experience to put them together! For this dish, no, no additional flavoring to the grits. Since each forkful includes tuna salad with the grits, that’s where the flavor comes from. Mmmm, hungry again…
Great pictures Thank you for sharing. I wish I could take such beautiful shots like you captured
Thank you! Keep in mind that I just culled the best from 400+ pics, not to mention having beautiful boats/water/sky to work with! 🙂 I’m glad you commented, Joe.
Been thinking about you. I was so sad to get the news! Glad you and Beau were able to make the best of it though, and that he was honoured at the awards ceremony. It must have been so exciting being on the chase boat and part of the action! Eeek! LOVE the pictures. It’s interesting – with the earlier shots I was surprised at the number of crew, then in later pictures, I totally understood… amazing the weight that’s required on a windy day!
Glad to have you back. 🙂
Thanks, Christine! Glad you enjoyed the recap and photos. Yes, windy days require more people on deck to lean out on the pry – and that’s even with loads of lead in the keel! All very exciting. Glad to be back with you and our Better Lifers. 🙂
I’m a Bahamian! I travel on mail boats as a kid from Nassau to Long Island.. The experience is a beautiful thing.. I now live in Palm Beach County Fl. I wish one left here to the Bahamas..
Hi Kenneth, delighted to hear from you! Thanks so much for your comment. Sounds like it’s time for you to get back home and cruise the islands again. 🙂
Great photos and thanks for the detailed recap. Almost felt like I was there….almost. Cheers!
So glad you enjoyed it, Ryan. Thanks for the comment! Good to hear from you.
Many thanks for your detailed and superbly illustrated article about a mailboat experience. I’ve started a blog about the history of mailboats in the Bahamas which I hope to turn into my next book. I took the liberty of posting a link to this story. More at http://www.mailboatsbahamas.blogspot.com. Thank you!
Hi Eric. Thanks for commenting here and for linking my post in your blog. What a delightful concept to detail the mailboat history and experience! I enjoyed browsing your blog. Keep in touch!
So happy to hear your “voice” again! My thoughts are with you and your family, and I’m so grateful to hear all is well! You’ve definitely focused your energy in the right places and your attitude is inspiring! Sounds like your mom and brother share the same wonderful perspective. 🙂 Sending all positive thoughts your way. xo
Thank you, Christine! I’m still not blogging as much as I’d like, but look forward to getting back into the swing before much longer. Meanwhile, happy American 4th of July! 🙂
Dawn, this is wonderful! I finally had a chance to read (some of) it and, I have to say – you’ve captured the essence of the island and all its “specialness” just the way I see it. It’s beautifully written and a joy to read. (You’re making me “homesick”).
I’m admiring your tomato plants! Gardening is good for the soul and fresh, homegrown tomatoes are the best!
Hope all is well with you guys and I will definitely finish reading and check on you often to see what’s going on!
~Chrissy
Thanks, Chrissy! It’s great to “see” you here. You have a wonderful green thumb, so fingers crossed that I can keep up! Or get lessons. 🙂 Thanks for following and commenting – much appreciated.
Hi! So glad to see your post! And a big “welcome back” to your island life! How wonderful to come home to beautiful sunsets and fiery sunrises, lovely plants (that you’re nurturing beautifully!) and the chance to catch your breath and enjoy an island dinner with Beau. And I love that you’re taking in the beauty of special everyday moments. That’s what it’s all about, right? 🙂
~ Christine
Absolutely, Christine, that’s what it’s all about! Good to see you here, and welcome back to you, too!
I miss those sunsets and the peace that the sea provides. Hopefully, we will get back there one of these days. Hi to Beau and the pups too. By the way, somebody has a birthday on the 28th, Happy Birthday Dawn, have a beautiful day. (:
Love you, Auntie and Uncle
Thank you, Auntie and Unc! I am having a wonderful birthday week already. My brother is here, and Beau took us all over this weekend. Lots of fun, lots of pics. I’m sure some of it will end up on the blog. 🙂 Thanks for your comment and well wishes. Love to you all.
The fish looks fantastic — but now what about sharing what sidetracked you! We’re curious about “better life procrastination.”
Thanks, Interested Reader! Well, it was a little procrastination, but mostly “island busy.” Starting with Regatta in April, I have been leaping from one event or round of travel to the next, including time in the States for family and medical stuff. Importantly, in the midst of being “busy,” I made a point to keep doing the fun stuff, too, and to attempt to maintain life balance by staying off the computer in the evenings and weekends. As a result, my beloved blog suffered my absence. But, also as a result, I am returning with renewed zest. And, yes, I procrastinated some, too. 😉 Thanks so much for your comment and have a great weekend!
I am glad to hear that you and your family are in good health!
Thank you, Res! Hope all is well with you and your family, too. Life is good!
Ah, wonderful to read your post. What an incredible sunset – fire dancing in the sky. And you’re so right, Mother Nature IS a spectacular artist.
I’m glad you’re back, but also glad you took time for yourself when you felt pulled in other directions. That’s so important, and as you know, a key to living the Better Life. 🙂
Christine, thanks so much for your comment. I am enjoying “being back” – even more so when I get to communicate with loyal readers like yourself! Thanks so much. Enjoy your own Better Life! As you well know, sunrises and sunsets and beautiful skies occur in all corners of the world. 😉
Hi. What can I say? YUM!! This looks fantastic. Question for you – how do you think it would taste with sweet potatoes rather than regular potatoes and rice? Think it would work, or would the sweet taste strange with the sauce? I’m curious, as I’ve been thinking about sweet potatoes lately. Regardless, I’ll have to try this, even sans Eleuthra Sauce.
Thanks, Christine! Mmmm, I like sweet potatoes, too. I don’t know, but give it a try! Stick with a fish that would otherwise go well with sweet potatoes, and maybe omit the hot peppers? Lemme know!
Dawn, Im glad your back and your post was refreshing. It’s so good to hear a writer openly talk about her blog and the challenges that exist. I truly think i had forgotten why islanders like the islands so much;
because of it’s peaceful and laid back lifestyle. And how this tug of war exists between getting more tourists to encourage the economy and the fight to maintain the island way of life in spite of this. This post was timely and true to the essence of choosing the better life. Continue to enjoy the islands!!!!
Thanks, Fabian, I’m glad you’re back, too! I really appreciate your heartfelt comment here. Enjoy island life as much as possible “in town”! 😉
Hey Dawn! My husband and I enjoyed seeing you again at SCYC a couple of weeks ago. We are the couple from Louisiana and w brought my parents along with us this last trip. We will definitely let you know when we head back to paradise! Until then, I will keep up with you and the better life through your blog! Jenni
Hi Jenni, thanks so much for checking out the blog and leaving a comment. It was lovely to see you and Doug again, and to meet your folks! Enjoy the onset of Fall in Louisiana, and I hope to see you back island-side soon.
Looks like an awesome trip. Your underwater photos were great as well. Gotta love the bahamas, and those huge lobsters. Keep posting, cant wait to read your next article.
Thanks, Fabian! Underwater photos are far easier in the crystal clear waters of the Bahamas. And, oh, the lobster, Thanks for your comment and enjoy another great Bahamian day!
Thanks Dawn for the beautiful post. We’re having a bit of a “squally” day in Alaska so the pictures were a welcome diversion! 🙂
Thanks, Lorena! Always good to hear from you, and I appreciate your comment. When you live in places of beauty like we do, a rainy day isn’t bad at all!
So NOW I finally know the bigger back story! Love it! What wonderful memories you’ve all shared there. And I love how your parents made the first experience so special. Creative and beautiful. 🙂
Thanks, Christine! It really was a special experience with my family, from that very first time and on through the decades!
Stunning, just stunning. So glad you had a wonderful visit with your brother! I’m sure he won’t wait too long to visit this time, now that he’s had a recent taste of your beautiful island!!
Thanks for your comment, Christine! I never fail to appreciate the beauty and specialness of this island (and my wonderful family).
I read your blog whenever you post, I enjoy every word of it. This one made me laugh out loud.
A little about me. Years ago, after a visit to St. Thomas, I actually sent resumes to law firms in St. Thomas, thinking it was just a dream and no one would respond. I actually got several job offers, site unseen. When faced with the very real possibility of living there, I had to consider the fact that I was a single mother to a 3 year old and didn’t really want to take her away from all her family. So, here I am, many years later, still stuck in a law firm in downtown Houston, living vicariously through your blog.
While I enjoyed this blog, I think I’ll have to pass on the Vienna Sausage treat, haven’t eaten one of those since my own childhood! Keep up the blogging!
Mia, I’m delighted to hear from you! Thank you so much for commenting. I enjoyed learning more about you, although I hate that you are “still stuck.” 🙂 And, of course, I always enjoy hearing from other lawyers. (“Once a lawyer…”) Sounds like you made some good-momma choices back in the day, but perhaps you’ll be able to make a new opportunity when your daughter flies the nest. Regardless of geographic location, I hope you are living your Better Life in small ways every day! Also, I very much appreciate your choice to skip trying the Vienna Sausages again. 🙂 So please enjoy a great downtown Houston restaurant meal for me!!
Great post, Dawn! Hubby and I take Vienna sausages out with us when we go fishing, diving, or beach combing . We like ours with a mustard and sharp cheddar on crackers. I’m going to have to try this hot sauce and sour prep now.
Thanks, Sarah! You know, I actually thought of you after I posted the blog because I remembered (belatedly) seeing a Vienna Sausage can by your boat gear one day, and I wished that I had commented on how others use them straight out of the can for on-the-go snacks. So, thank you very much for sharing with us all! I’m going to try them your way, too! Yum. 🙂
Cold. I’m coming soon…(the 20th) Can’t wait to see you guys!
Brrrrr, Chrissy. C’mon south and see you soon!
Morning Dawn (: Loved reading about your “winter weather”. Even here in TX we were freezing. Single digits but Uncle walked anyway. Broke all records here. I do believe ones blood thins when you live in a warmer climate.
Wishing you and Beau a blessed 2014!
Loved the pictures, brings back good memories
Thanks for your comment, Auntie. Congrats to Unc for keeping up the exercise, despite the weather. I haven’t been able to keep it up in my fabulous weather. 😉 Good to hear from you and Happy New Year!
Just the recipe I was looking for, I even have some Eluthura sauce but I call it Long Island sauce 🙂 (we are almost neighbors). I was looking for a healthy version of this recipe so thanks for posting.
Robin
Thanks for commenting, Robin! I am a fan of Long Island as well, so I trust that your sauce and meal will be just as tasty! Enjoy.
Absolutely beautiful!
Thanks, Carlotte! And wonderful to hear from you! 🙂
Nice to see you back at the keyboard after your looooooonnngggg vacation! Hope you are well. I am a mess, but that’s a conversation for another outlet. Peace.
Thanks, Tom! It’s great to hear from you and great to be writing again. Hugs.
Hi Dawn! Your posts are wonderful renditions of island living.. Love it!!
Thanks, Nay! I’m so glad you’re enjoying the posts. I know you’re a fan of island living. 😉
Love, love, love that an orange kitty has stolen your heart. When the right one comes along, they’re simply irresistible.
Kelly, thanks so much for commenting! Yes, Kitty has definitely stolen my heart. Now that I am officially a cat lover and talk more about cats, I’ve heard repeatedly that orange tabby cats (especially male) are known for being loving and affectionate like our kitty. Go figure!
I read your YouQueen article about your experience switching from lawyer and hardworker to island freelance writer and a more relaxing lifestyle about a year ago, and I have just come back to it because I am thinking about making almost similar changes in my life (I’m the esthetician/wax specialist who always wanted to be a writer) and am very unsure and afraid right now, yet completely inspired and encouraged. I had to find your blog after that to see how things are going for you and I am glad to see that things seem to be going great 🙂 God bless you Dawn!
Ashley! Thank you so much for your comment. I am sorry it took my so very long to respond. I’m afraid I’ve neglected my blog terribly. However, being appalled at myself may have the silver lining of kick-starting me to post again! All is well; just got busy with new projects. I also popped over to your blog to see how YOU are doing! I hope you continue to feel the inspiration and encouragement (more than the fear and uncertainty)! All the best to you, Ashley. Thanks so much for writing. Dawn
Hi Dawn,
I met you on a flight to the island in June of 2013. We sat next to each other, you were bringing a washing machine over :-). I just found your card and came to check out your site. I look forward to reading more about your life in the Bahamas. I look forward to making it back over there again one day.
Hi, Tiffany! Thank you so much for your comment and for checking out the blog. I am sorry it took my so very long to respond. I’m afraid I’ve neglected my blog terribly. However, being appalled at myself may have the silver lining of kick-starting me to post again! All is well; just got busy with new projects. Off to a Regatta. To be continued. 🙂 Hope all is well in your world! Thanks again for writing. Dawn
Do these sea snails have venom. I have heard somewhere that many large sea snails can use their tongue to sting. Is your snail safe to handle ?
These do not have venom. We even eat them as a tasty treat!
My folks built a house outside Hopetown back in the 80s. All of our neighbors were Bahamian and taught my mom this recipe. Spot on as far as I can tell. Makes me want a Matusalem and water…..
Thanks for writing, Jamie. So glad the recipe rings true and authentic for you!
I LOVE Kitty, I am not surprised that he has found his way into your heart and home! Of course they’re sweet and cuddly – especially orange tabby cats (I miss my Cleo)…
Thanks for your comment, Julee! Alas, Kitty has since departed us. But I’m still thankful he taught me to love cats!
I love Sugar Apples, but they’re a little harder to find in Florida. We always look for them when we get to the islands, though!
Smackin’ my lips just thinking about them! Thanks for your comment, Julee
I love your blog, Dawn, and am so happy that you’re sharing your experiences there with us. (It only makes me miss the Bahamas more!) Your stories are compelling and fun to read. And I didn’t know you offered all those writing services. How much of your time do you actually spend writing for others now?
Thanks for your comment, Julee. I’m so pleased you like the blog! I spend very little time writing now – not on this blog and not freelance either! Life has become quite “busy” with other things, but I still try to maintain that “balance” that is central to the theme of this blog and to reap the upsides of island living! For now, however, that means pushing writing to the back-burner. I’m confident there will be a day when it takes on a stronger focus again. Meanwhile, I’ve maintained the blog site, intending to get back to writing. And that’s why I signed on today at long last . . . to write! Thanks for your support.
Wow! Love the photos! Thank you! Wonderful to hear from you. Where have you been???
Thanks for the comment! I’ve been right here, mostly. But Life got busy with other priorities and writing moved lower on the list. Been feeling the nudges to move it higher on the list, so … here I am! 😉